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Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
From: al (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Apr 26 19:23:44 1999
Oh Suzy!!! Personally, I'm not in the least offended and think I just
might have to try it out, sounds like it'd be fun, and I know he'd like
the warm towels. I've used vanilla massage oil on my hubby, not in
quite this way, but just as effectively. The vanilla smell, btw, is
supposed to result in greater arousal and satisfaction for both parties.
I don't say this to offend anyone, but the whole sex/how to make the
most of the limited sex due to endo, is the hot topic, and just wanted
to share that little tidbit. There's actually been research to document
the greater, ummmm, male response to the scent.....
hope somebody finds this useful, and hope you all have a good night
Amy
Sue Rose wrote:
>
> Umm, well, that was SUPPOSED to be a private post to Carolyn, so I hope that
> no one found that vulgar or obscene. It is merely a stress reliever for
> your man if he is having a hard time dealing with the situation!
>
> Sorry if I offended anyone!
>
> Suzy
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Sue <suzy@strato.net>
> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 4:52 PM
> Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
>
> >Carolyn,
> >
> >Here you go! I really only have one...but I think it's pretty good!
> >
> >Basically, I have a male email friend that told me a couple of things that
> I
> >could do to make Andy feel more comfortable with our situation.
> >First, you'll want to get some good vitamin E oil and warm it up. Not hot,
> >just warm. Have him take a shower and while he is in the shower, put
> >incense, and candles in the room. Play some soft romantic music. Heat up
> >some towels in the microwave and put them in a cooler to keep them warm.
> >When he gets out of the shower, lie him down on the bed and gently rub his
> >body from the toes up. Make sure that when you reach that "region" that
> you
> >skip it and only massage around it. He should be ready (if you know what
> I
> >mean) by the time you reach his shoulders.
> >You can give him oral sex if you like or you can massage the part of him
> >that you missed. This should give him extreme pleasure and make him very
> >happy. When he is ready to cum, let him come where he may (on himself) and
> >then wipe him gently with the warm towels. If you like you can prepare
> like
> >a picnic meal to eat in the room afterwards. I haven't tried this yet. I
> >am waiting for a good time.
> >I hope that this helps...
> >Suzy
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: carolyn <cmdean@gte.net>
> >To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 4:29 PM
> >Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE-Suzy
> >
> >>I read your post to Rachelle and I hope that you don't mind me butting in.
> >>I would be very interested in your advice. My husband and I are about to
> >>celebrate our first anniversary. We have a wonderful marriage and he is
> >>truely my best friend. But sometimes we go weeks without having any
> >>. I am sure you can imagine how that can feel to newly weds. Anyway, if
> >>you don't mind I would appreciate any advice you have. Feel free to email
> >>me privately cmdean@gte.net. Thank you.
> >>Carolyn
> >>-----Original Message-----
> >>From: Sue <suzy@strato.net>
> >>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >>Date: Monday, April 26, 1999 2:41 PM
> >>Subject: RE: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >>
> >>>Rachelle,
> >>>
> >>>Friends have been telling me some other things that we can do to make our
> >>>man feel loved and still wanted....email me privately and I can give you
> >>>the advice that they gave me. suzy@strato.net
> >>>
> >>>Suzy
> >>>
> >>>On Monday, April 26, 1999 3:29 PM, Parks, Rachelle
> >>>[SMTP:anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
> >>>> Hi Sue-
> >>>> I need some help here too! Let me know what you come up with. I dont
> >>>know
> >>>> if explaining to him how we feel will help much,because I know my
> >>>boyfriend
> >>>> doesnt want to hear it. I guess there are other things you can do for
> >him
> >>>> other than intercourse, i dont know about you, but I dont feel like
> >doing
> >>>> that either. I have no interest in sex, and I love him to death- What
> >to
> >>>> do?????
> >>>> Thanks
> >>>> rachelle
> >>>>
> >>>> > ----------
> >>>> > From: Sue Rose[SMTP:suzy@strato.net]
> >>>> > Reply To: endo@obgyn.net
> >>>> > Sent: Monday, April 26, 1999 3:17 PM
> >>>> > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> >>>> > Subject: RE: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >>>> >
> >>>> > Oh yeah! I know about this one too!
> >>>> >
> >>>> > My fiance and I had a VERY ACTIVE sex life for the first 3 years of
> >our
> >>>> > relationship...it was great! But now, he wants it alot more and I
> >want
> >>>it
> >>>> >
> >>>> > alot less and it is causing friction in our otherwise wonderful
> >>>> > relationship. What I would like to know is what did anyone else do
> >>>about
> >>>> > this? Please don't tell me that he is being selfish for getting
> >>>> > frustrated
> >>>> > with me. I know that...we argue about that all the time now! (LOL)
> >>> It's
> >>>> >
> >>>> > good that I can laugh about it, but only a couple of days ago I was
> >>>crying
> >>>> >
> >>>> > about it....
> >>>> > What can I tell him that would make him less frustrated? I need
> >>>help....
> >>>> >
> >>>> > Suzy
> >>>> >
> >>>> > On Monday, April 26, 1999 11:37 AM, Parks, Rachelle
> >>>> > [SMTP:anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
> >>>> > > Hello All-
> >>>> > > I have a personal questions. Since my endo symptoms started and
> the
> >>>> > > medications I have been on I dont have that sexual urge anymore, my
> >>>> > libido
> >>>> > > is very low, does any one else have this problem and how do you
> deal
> >>>> > with
> >>>> > > it. My boyfriend has been very understanding but is also getting
> >>>very
> >>>> > > frustrated. HELP!!!!
> >>>> > >
> >>>> > > > ----------
> >>>> > > > From: Daniel Vogel[SMTP:homespun@louisa.net]
> >>>> > > > Reply To: endo@obgyn.net
> >>>> > > > Sent: Friday, April 23, 1999 10:18 AM
> >>>> > > > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> >>>> > > > Subject: Re: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >>>> > > >
> >>>> > > > Arlene;
> >>>> > > > I too have painful interourse. So "ways" are more comfortable
> than
> >>>> > others!
> >>>> > > > My Dr. said that it just depends where the endo. is at, and the
> >>>nerves
> >>>> > > > that
> >>>> > > > it is near. Thank-Goodness that my husband is cooperative!! They
> >>>are
> >>>> > may
> >>>> > > > ways to be intimate, but the main thing is that you are
> >>>comfortable.If
> >>>> > > > something hurts, work with your partner,dont give up!!Best of
> >Luck!
> >>>> > > >
> >>>> > > > Chelsea
> >>>> > > > homespun@louisa.net
> >>>> > > > -----Original Message-----
> >>>> > > > From: arlenne.mawdsley@wg.dwts.co.uk <arlenne.mawdsley@wg.dwts.c
> >>>o.uk>
> >>>> > > > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@talk.obgyn.net>
> >>>> > > > Date: Friday, April 23, 1999 9:21 AM
> >>>> > > > Subject: PAINFUL INTERCOURSE
> >>>> > > >
> >>>> > > > > Does anyone experience painful intercourse, this was one of the
> >>>> > reasons
> >>>> > > > >I realised that I had something wrong with me, after having a
> lap
> >>>> > last
> >>>> > > > >year I had pressumed that this would ease but it hasn't much,
> >some
> >>>> > times
> >>>> > > > >as better that other.
> >>>> > > > >
> >>>> > > > >Arlenne.
> >>>> > > > >
> >>>> > > >
> >>>> > >
> >>>> > /endo
> >>>> >
> >>>>
> >>>
> >>
> >
>
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