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Re: getting pregnant

From: Anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Mar 26 10:12:01 1999


Hi Jen,

I can undertsand your pain and frustration dealing with the knowledge that you may need to gat pregnant ASAP. I was diagnosed last May and the the doctor told me I only had a year. I really struggled with whether or not I should get pregnant now or later. However, I just have to say this. We all make the best choices available to us at any given time. On a listserve of this nature I don't think it's fair for you to say you hate women who have abortions. I can hear that it's coming from a place of pain, but I still don't think it's appropriate. Anyway I didn't write to yell at you - I just get upset when I hear women saying stuff like that. Good luck with you decision. My advice would be to get a second opinion and not make live-changing decisions because you feel backed into a corner. It is almost a year for me and I am now in my fifth month of Lupron treatment, hoping it will extend my fertility. Take care! Anne

On Fri, 26 Mar 1999 anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:

> I have stage 1 endo and the Doc. pretty much told me that if I wanted anymore
> kids that I should have them when I'm young because a hyst. is not to far off.
> I'm 19 and already have 1 kid and I do want to have more kids. I'm scared
> that if I wait to long that I won't be able to have any. He wants to put me
> on cont. bcp for 8 months, I'm not looking forward to this because I hate
> bcps. I just started my job so I really think that know is not the time to
> get pregnant, but then again what if I wait and the endo gets so bad that I
> can't have anymore kids. I read all of your post about not being able to have
> kids and I really feel bad for you. It makes me hate all the women who can
> have kids but get an abortion or treat there kids like crap. I wish you all
> luck and pain free days.
>
> Jennifer
>

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