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Re: ToniFrom: kim (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue Jan 19 19:36:59 1999
Toni, Its quite alright to talk about how lousey you are feeling thats why we are all here,to pick up each other when we are not having such hot days. It's nice to hear that your mother has helped your sister,I am a firm believer in guardian angels,and being touched by an angel.I have been touched by our very own angel.He has gotten me through some really difficult moments. It is more than alright to talk about your Mom.Your mom is still a very big part of your life,and will always be.Grief is a mystery in its own.You can be fine,then one second later something trigger's a memory and all those emotions take you back to day 1..Its a very long process.Its been 8 years since the death of our Son,and there are days that it feels like it was yesterday.So when ever the time comes that you need to talk about your Mom by all means let those feelings out. I am working through mail now so haven't gotten through all the letter's I save yours many times because normally my letter's to you are quite long..Why I am not always so sure but for someone reason you have clicked in my heart,and my thoughts are with you all the time.I actually think of many of the women all the time and bring them up in conversations quite a bit..I find it truely amazing to have so many women who have so many of the same problems,where they always mention so many are them are low percentage wise things,which I am being to think they need to redo these surverys or we wouldn't all be in one place. As for your Dad I am sure when the time is good and his heart is ready he will possible pack up her items,He may not.Its very difficult to lose a spouse.Packing items away sometimes makes you feel its more permenant for other's it helps them go on with their grieving process.each person is different in how they deal with grief..3 years to me is still newly grieving its a very long process,that gets easier with time,but never forgotten,and something that will profoundly change your life for ever.So hugs and prayers to all your family.I wish you the very best with Pain Mangement I hope they work out for you,and please let me know,I am anxious to hear if they help in any way.. Hugs Kimmi Women and Children First http://members.tripod.com/~ibkimmi/ Daveinma@ix.netcom.com Join our webring Women and Children http://members.tripod.com/~ibkimmi/page19.html Join our New webring Lean On Me http://members.tripod.com/~ibkimmi/page27.html Join our cause to stop violence http://members.tripod.com/~ibkimmi/page36.html Magical Christmas Place http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pointe/2308/
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