Re: Just needing some support(jenny)
From: Ann (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Dec 20 20:53:10 1998
dear jenny,
i really feel for you.how can your husband be so unsympathetic?we
didnt ask for this disease that seems to last a lifetime.i am always
here for you if you want to e-mail.i have been through it all.just had
almost a full hysterectomy.but thank g-d for the support of my
husband.i still have issues of pain and bowel probs.but he is here to
handle our two children(4 and 1)and lend me his shoulder to cry
on.again i am here for you...you are important to me.
ann barber
---MyJenny <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote:
>
> Hi All,
> It's been awhile since you all have heard
> from me-sorry. I have been having a hard time
> lately.
>
> This last friday, I was admitted in the
> hospital for endo pain. It was pain right above
> my butt and on my "lower left flank". My
> health has been terrible. I have not been able
> to eat much of anything in the past couple of
> weeks. Every time that I poop, I am in emmense
> pain. This sucks. I guess the only thing
> good that has come out of this is that-I have
> lost some weight-which I needed to loose anyway.
>
> I have also been having major problems in my
> marriage. I have been debating in the past month
> whether or not to leave my husband and try a
> "trial separation". I haven't left yet, but I am
> still struggeling with the thought.
>
> It sounds pathetic, but I am afraid if I
> leave him, no man will ever want me becuase of my
> health problems. I am afraid at this point, I
> will not be able to support or take care of
> myself. I have no family there that could take
> me in.
>
> So, I am staying. I am not abused
> physically, he just is never home. He just
> doesn't care.
>
> Here I am sick as dog, all of the
> time-batteling this thing called endo and trying
> to "save" my marriage. It seems like everything
> is going to he*l in a hand basket-quick.
>
> So, I am at a loss with everything. The
> endo is not responding to anything. My husband is
> not responding to anything. And I am going
> crazy!
>
> Growl...
>
> Thanks for listening-just needed to get this
> stuff off my chest.
> Jenny.
>
> ==
> Please See my pages at:
>
> http://home.talkcity.com/ConnectionPt/jenneybean
> http://www.angelfire.com/mi/jenneybean/index.html
>
==
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Ann Barber
annmbarber@yahoo.com
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