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Re: Am I just being a B----H
From: Karla (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Nov 20 10:28:02 1998
You are very justified. Your home should be based on respect for both of you.
He was being inconsiderate and disrespectful to stay up to all hours of the
night. My husband used to do that, but fortunately we have set ground rules
now. Sit down and have a talk with him. But, please make sure you are calm
first.
Good Luck!
Melissa Thomas wrote:
> Hi all,
>
> This has nothing to do with endo, but I look to you for support and value
> your opinions. I had a very bad evening and I want you to tell me if you
> think I am justified to be angry. My husband has a friend visiting. This
> is his best friend and he sees him once every two years. I do everything to
> make the house nice, etc. to make him feel wanted. My husband took today
> off to spend with him, but I had to go to work. Mind you I am up at 4 am
> because I have a very long commute (irvine - santa Monica). I went to bed
> at nine and they were just talking and drinking. I woke up at 12 because
> they were being really loud and obnoxious. I thought to myself, they will
> probably go to bed soon and I don't want to make a scene. At 1 am, however
> I did tell them to be quiet. At 2:30 am when the golf clubs came out in the
> living room (we have a small apartment) I told them again that they were
> being too loud and I needed to get some sleep. (I was also afraid of the
> damage two drunks with golf clubs could do inside a house). They finally
> went to sleep.
>
> Am I justified to be upset with this behavior. I would not have cared if it
> was on a night that I did not have to wake up early. I think that my
> husband was being very insensitive to the fact that I need to be up early.
> When I get up early in the morning when we have company, I am always
> considerate of the fact that people are trying to sleep in the house. I
> don't want to make a big deal out of nothing, but my husband was being a
> loud, obnoxious jerk.
>
> Melissa
>
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