Re: Am I just being a B----H
From: Carmen (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Nov 20 09:51:33 1998
I think you were justified to be angry with him. You took time to appreciate
the fact that this was a good friend he wanted to spend time with, and he
knew that you had to get up quite early the next day.
That was very inconsiderate and rude of him.
He definitely owes you more than an apology.
Carmen
-----Original Message-----
From: Melissa <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: Multiple recipients of list <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Date: Friday, November 20, 1998 8:12 AM
Subject: Am I just being a B----H
>Hi all,
>
>This has nothing to do with endo, but I look to you for support and value
>your opinions. I had a very bad evening and I want you to tell me if you
>think I am justified to be angry. My husband has a friend visiting. This
>is his best friend and he sees him once every two years. I do everything
to
>make the house nice, etc. to make him feel wanted. My husband took today
>off to spend with him, but I had to go to work. Mind you I am up at 4 am
>because I have a very long commute (irvine - santa Monica). I went to bed
>at nine and they were just talking and drinking. I woke up at 12 because
>they were being really loud and obnoxious. I thought to myself, they will
>probably go to bed soon and I don't want to make a scene. At 1 am, however
>I did tell them to be quiet. At 2:30 am when the golf clubs came out in
the
>living room (we have a small apartment) I told them again that they were
>being too loud and I needed to get some sleep. (I was also afraid of the
>damage two drunks with golf clubs could do inside a house). They finally
>went to sleep.
>
>Am I justified to be upset with this behavior. I would not have cared if
it
>was on a night that I did not have to wake up early. I think that my
>husband was being very insensitive to the fact that I need to be up early.
>When I get up early in the morning when we have company, I am always
>considerate of the fact that people are trying to sleep in the house. I
>don't want to make a big deal out of nothing, but my husband was being a
>loud, obnoxious jerk.
>
>Melissa
>
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