Re: Confused and hurt
From: Ryan (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Aug 29 16:16:48 1998
Kelly,
First of all, be strong sweetheart. I can totally feel your
pain,and also your frustration with finding a guy that will understand.
I myself am 18,and planning to be wed upon my graduation from college.
My fiance is very understanding towards my situation and has even
educated himself on the disease. As for your ex,it sounds to me like sex
was a big deal with him. He is not even worth a second look. It is
heartbreaking to lose your first love. Did your ex give you any good
reason why he didn't love you anymore? There are VERY nice men out
there,and you will find one if you are patient. Keep dating around and
you will find a guy that listens and understands! Be strong sweetie!
Sincerly,
Ryan
>From: Mel <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>
> Hi Kelly,
>I just wanted you to know that there are good men out there, I found
>myself one!! He is very >patient with me and never pushes me into sex
>because he knows that it might be painful!!! We >could even be in the
>middle of it and he will stop if its painful... he knows that sometimes
>I am in alot of pain and that makes me crabby but he is cool with all this...
>so dont give >up , you are young!!!! Be strong and let the man know
>that you need him if he wont be there >for you then he can hit the road
>Melanie
>
>Hi, my name is Kelly and I'm 19. Was diagnosed with endo of May this
>year. I was with my fiancee for 3 and a half years, then last month he
>decided he didn't love me anymore. I believe he found someone else who
>could have children and intercourse with him. It just really hurts,
>I'm in the dating scene, which is so hard. I just don't now how to
>feel anymore. How do you get over someone you've been with for so long.
>I can't seem to forget him, but he's out parting every night and dating
>all these girls. My mom keeps telling me to not worry, he was no good
>anyway. Which he wasen't, now that I'm not with him I relieze how bad
>he treated me. But that still dosen't fix my broken heart. I guess
>what my question is, are thereany nice guys out there who dosen't
>matter if you have endo?
>
>Thanks for listening!!!
>Kelly
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