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Re: Painful Sex, need help
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Apr 24 00:49:31 2009
WHAT ARE YOU, 100 YEARS OLD????
Women with endo have S E X. It is not a bad word.
Many men give us the 'finger f...'.
They can still be gentlemen!!
Some of us, me included, like to be 'worked by hand'!!!
If you can't deal w/that, then go somewhere else! Grow up!!
Manual stimulation by a man can be very gratifying
when you can't have actual intercourse!!
At Wed, 22 Apr 2009, anonymous wrote:
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>he's a gentleman and he 'tries to work you by hand'? wow, how things
>have changed
>
>not a nice term
>
>At Wed, 22 Apr 2009, Hilary wrote:
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>>I'm 22 years old, and I have Endometriosis, PCOS, and Interstitial
>>Cystitis. I was diognosed with PCOS when I was 16, and Endo when I was
>>17. I've had 4 surgeries for Endo, and while I'm still in chronic pain,
>>my doctor's think it's mainly from the PCOS. I'm on pain meds, but my
>>abdomen is still painful to any pressure.
>>
>>Anyways, I recently tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first
>>time and it was unbearably painful. So painful we had to stop. Even
>>when he tried to just work me by hand, it was very painful. One of my
>>surgeon's accidentally broke my hymen during one of my surgeries, so I
>>know that's not the problem. I just wish I knew what was wrong so I
>>could fix it. Luckily my boyfriend is a complete gentleman, and said
>>he'd rather just cuddle then hurt me in any way.
>>
>>Do any of you have any suggestions on how to help? Should we try a
>>different position? We tried Missionary, and that was really painful. Or
>>maybe more foreplay beforehand? Anything?
>>
>>I would be very grateful any help you ladies could give me.
>>
>>--
>> ~Hilary~
>>
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