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Re: Painful Sex, need help
From: E. (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Apr 24 00:41:50 2009
Also, before any sexual play, make sure you are
very lubricated with KY jelly. Lubrication
makes everything easier!
At Wed, 22 Apr 2009, Hilary wrote:
>
>I'm 22 years old, and I have Endometriosis, PCOS, and Interstitial
>Cystitis. I was diognosed with PCOS when I was 16, and Endo when I was
>17. I've had 4 surgeries for Endo, and while I'm still in chronic pain,
>my doctor's think it's mainly from the PCOS. I'm on pain meds, but my
>abdomen is still painful to any pressure.
>
>Anyways, I recently tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first
>time and it was unbearably painful. So painful we had to stop. Even
>when he tried to just work me by hand, it was very painful. One of my
>surgeon's accidentally broke my hymen during one of my surgeries, so I
>know that's not the problem. I just wish I knew what was wrong so I
>could fix it. Luckily my boyfriend is a complete gentleman, and said
>he'd rather just cuddle then hurt me in any way.
>
>Do any of you have any suggestions on how to help? Should we try a
>different position? We tried Missionary, and that was really painful. Or
>maybe more foreplay beforehand? Anything?
>
>I would be very grateful any help you ladies could give me.
>
>--
> ~Hilary~
>
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