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Re: Painful Sex, need help
From: E. (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Apr 24 00:39:42 2009
Have you tried being on top?
Sometimes it can be less painful if the woman is on top,
this way you can slowly let him in and you can control
how far he can go in and how fast.
You can also try mutual masterbation, it can be a lot of fun!
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>At Wed, 22 Apr 2009, Hilary wrote:
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>>I'm 22 years old, and I have Endometriosis, PCOS, and Interstitial
>>Cystitis. I was diognosed with PCOS when I was 16, and Endo when I was
>>17. I've had 4 surgeries for Endo, and while I'm still in chronic pain,
>>my doctor's think it's mainly from the PCOS. I'm on pain meds, but my
>>abdomen is still painful to any pressure.
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>>Anyways, I recently tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first
>>time and it was unbearably painful. So painful we had to stop. Even
>>when he tried to just work me by hand, it was very painful. One of my
>>surgeon's accidentally broke my hymen during one of my surgeries, so I
>>know that's not the problem. I just wish I knew what was wrong so I
>>could fix it. Luckily my boyfriend is a complete gentleman, and said
>>he'd rather just cuddle then hurt me in any way.
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>>Do any of you have any suggestions on how to help? Should we try a
>>different position? We tried Missionary, and that was really painful. Or
>>maybe more foreplay beforehand? Anything?
>>
>>I would be very grateful any help you ladies could give me.
>>
>>--
>> ~Hilary~
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