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Re: Pain and no support from husbandFrom: Leyna (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri Nov 28 23:42:42 2008
At Sat, 22 Nov 2008, Kelly wrote: > >Hello all, > >I know I have posted alot of questions here on this forum, but I really >am new to all this and the pain makes me feel helpless. > >I started Lupron on Weds (11/19) and the pain and cramps have been >horrible. My doctor has told me this is normal while the hormones peak, >but it really is discouraging. My husband, well I know he loves me, but >he just is so not understanding of all this. We haven't made love in a >long time. I miss it, but the last thing I want to do right now is >stick anything up there. I'm sorry if this is too much info, but I have >to let it out. I feel like I'm going crazy. I have no one to turn too. >I don't know what to do half the time, and the other half, I'm in so >much pain, there is no one that knows what to do for me (albeit my >doctor). I don't want to call him as I really want to give this Lupron >a fair run and sometimes I feel like I am always calling him for fear >that something is really seriously happening when the pain is bad. What >really scares me is that this new pain with the Lupron is that when I am >sitting down for a long period of time, When I get up, I get so much >pain, like when I get up, my chair is hold my pelvic organs down to the >chair. There is so much pinchy pain. Also I have alot of cramping pain >along with almost like my pelvic area has a heater in it. Is this >normal? As, I know alot of people as for doctors in their area, but I >would like to know if there are any support groups in my area >(Middletown, Pa 17057)? I so need it as my husband thinks I'm a dead >weight because I never want to do anything or I never want to make love. >He is young and just doesn't understand what I am going through. > >Love all, > >-- >Kelly > Kelly, I hope that your husband can learn to help you and not be so concerned about your sex life. My husband and I both are young and I am going through similar things and even though we have a hard time with our lack of a sex life, he understands there are more important things going on and at risk. Sometimes I think he is more worried that I am. Age is not an excuse for your husband to have that kind of attitude towards your condition. I wish you both luck... it's bad enough that endo wrecks bodies, it shouldnt mess with relationships. -Leyna
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