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Re: Excision Specialist who is covered by insurance.From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)Thu Jul 31 08:48:41 2008
It's an interesting social experiment to watch this board in action. Here we have a person who posted incorrect - this is indisputable and verifiable - information about a surgeon who is well respected and much adored. She was called out on that information, but instead of owning up to it and being a mature adult ("grow up," as others have been instructed to do, would be good advice here!), she immediately adopted the behavior of a 10th grade girl (perhaps she is one, in which case, her reaction would be understandable). What is not understandable, however, is the wolf pack mentality that ensued by her supporter or supporters. Those individuals have absolutely NO right to attack the anons (or anyone else) who responded - and yes indeed, there is more than one anon here! - with accusations about how mean-spirited the "anons" are, etc. Let's review the facts - only Nicole and her supporter(s) became ugly in their responses first. Only Nicole and her supporter(s) chose to promote this issue to the nth degree, rather than simply stating, "I was wrong, sorry, let's move on." It was Nicole and her supporter(s) that dragged this whole sordid mess out into the long, drawn out battle it has become. People will not always agree with others. However, this is a GROUP. When confronted with an easily verifiable fact, your choice is a.) accept that fact at its word or b.) validate it yourself. Attacking the person who corrects you in an immature fashion lacks serious maturity and shows only your shortcomings as an individual - it reflects poorly only on you, not the messenger who brought the information to you. YOU look like the fool - and the more you try to attack the person, the more foolish you look. Further, enlisting your clique in the fray exhibits total immaturity on your part. So to Nicole and her friend(s), know this: you do not own this board. You have the audacity to exclude all those who say things you do not agree with - even if you are wrong - and then have the nerve to turn around and attack the person for being right or posting in contrast to your message. That is not how a supposed support and education community works. And really, that is not how the real world works. You do not have the corner market on all things factual about Endo and the quicker you open up your mind to that, the quicker you will move on from the victim mentality you posted with yesterday. If you wish to have a little clique that wallows in self-pity, trades incorrect or inaccurate information, and operates in a vacuum, then by all means, do live your life that way - however, do not do it here at everyone else's expense. You have no right to ask ANYONE what their experience is with the CEC, Dr. Redwine, Dr. Cook or Dr. Whomever as though it were a challenge. If you are genuinely interested, then yes - of course, ask; however, you demand answers as though the person owed you an explanation about her Endo care. She doesn't. And it is obvious you don't care anyway, so really, why waste her time and yours?? Have you nothing better to do than try to engage her (or anyone else) in a confrontation about her care? This is not about anyone else's experience or even about who's a good doc or bad - this is about the fact that Nicole posted INACCURATE information to a board that others read and DESERVE the truth on. Plain and simple. You can spin it however you want, but at the end of the day, that's the truth. And truly - challenging someone about their experience as a means of deflecting the fact that you or your friend posted an inaccurate statement and was called out on it is truly juvenile. Please do grow up, as you have instructed others to do. There is a teen board over at the ERC's group; if you cannot conduct yourself in a mature fashion as a grown up woman with Endo would do, consider joining the teens and young girl group. In closing, if you wish to be "enlightened" as you state, consider shutting your mouth, opening your eyes and ears, and actually listening to someone else for a change. Or maybe you're just asking to be spiteful, as all your other posts are to anyone that responds to you in kind. Talk about making this board a difficult place to be - please, start the finger pointing at yourself.
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