ENDO Messages for April, 2008: Re: pain with intercourse :(

Re: pain with intercourse :(

From: Brooke (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Apr 26 13:23:06 2008

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Jelka....I think we are Soul Mates! I myself am 23 years old, and have suffered from endo for about 3.5 years. I have tried birth control, lap x 3 to remove the adhesions, and lupron x 2! Sex to me is horrible...I don't know of anything I hate more that is suppose to be fun and loving. Thankfully my Fiance who I am going to marry Sept 6, 2008 is so loving and understanding. My doctor told me friday that I need to start trying to get pregnant. How do I get pregnant when sex absolutely terrifies me? The idea of maybe pueking on my Micheal terrifies me and I feel is very possible when we have sex. I to have endo. on my uereters, colon, and kidneys now, I know how you feel. It seems that all I do is bleed, and if the bleeding subsides a few days it is ruined by a cyst bursting, making me sick for a week at least. I know that in the long run this will make us stronger, but it seems so unfair - I know. Mike and I finally had to have a talk that I will tell him what hurts and if I want him to stop something, him asking me makes me feel like such a baby and I know they do it because they love us but for me it makes it hard to feel at all sexy, which I need to be able to feel to even attempt sex. I know this wasn't helpful for you but I know that this morning I woke up feeling down after fridays appointment of being told to have sex to get pregnant which will hurt, and that it probably won't happen naturally - Agh! I just needed to take today and get it all out and I hope knowing that theres people going through this with you helps.

At Sat, 26 Apr 2008, jelka wrote: >
>i'm 23 and have been diagnosed with endo about 1.5 years ago. i never
>ever had heavy periods or bad ones i've been every 28 days my whole time
>i've ever had a period. nobody in my famly has endo, but about 2 years
>ago i miscarried and when it happened i was in my car stuck in traffic
>for over 30 minutes and when i got home i was clenching my legs
>togeather just to make it to the bathroom to make sure i didn't bleed
>everywhere, as soon as i went to the washroom and pulled my pants down
>it was like a waterfall. i feel this is what started everything. i've
>also have poly cystic ovaries since i've had my period, i've been on
>birth control but i still make cysts but the egg never breaks out and
>then i have another cyst, a never ending saga. I started having
>problems with pain during intercourse about 1 year ago to the point that
>i'm ready to vomit, i get sweaty and can't breath it feels as if some
>one was squeezing my uterus and my colon, i told my fiance it wasn't him
>and that it is this endo. he doesn't really understand this medical
>jargon. this happened the worst 2 days ago and it makes me not want to
>have sex anymore. it's horrible. i have a cyst now also making sex
>uncomfortable on top of that, but this cyst if different than others . i
>know i have endo on my uterine ligament (my gyne said)but i'm wondering
>if it may have moved to the ovary. i just need some help my doc says
>well i don't want to do anything now because i'm so young. intercouse
>just isn't fun anymore and my hunny is always asking me does this hurt,
>is this ok, did i hurt you? please some advice.

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