 |
 |
 |
|
|
|||
|
|
||||
|
||||
|
|
Need opinion from women with endo who have had this happen before (Maybe TMI)From: Candace (anonymous@obgyn.net)Sat Apr 26 02:19:37 2008
Tonight I got home from work, and I was sitting on the computer. My boyfriend came in and said hey wanna watch a movie? I was like okay sure. I'm tired from work, feel like I'm going to fall asleep during the movie, and just plain want to relax. I asked my boyfriend to tickle my back. (one of the only things that will help me relax completely.) He does, and we're watching the movie. Once the movie is over, I just want to cuddle. I was laying there, and he put his hand on my butt. First thing that goes through my mind is great, he wants to have sex. I hate the fact that, every time I just want to cuddle with him, he thinks it's an invitation to have sex. I've tried telling him this before, but he doesn't get it. We just had sex two days ago, and I'm still rather sore (on the inside) from it. He starts asking me things like are you in the mood? How can I make it feel better, and junk like that. I'm not really doing any foreplay cause I"m just trying to get into the mood. I was starting to when he all of a sudden just completely stops. He starts wondering why I'm not doing things, and he's usually very supportive with my endo pain. He knows sex is painful for me. He also knows that sex wakes me up. I have to work in the morning. I close on Friday nights and open on Saturday mornings. Was it wrong for me to get upset with him? He always feels rejected when I'm not in the mood. In my opinion if we've been together 7 years and he feels rejected then something is wrong there. I've only flat out said no TWICE!!! TWO TIMES in our ENTIRE relationship, (not including tonight which I didn't say no) Was it wrong for me to get upset? It takes time for me to get into the mood because I know what will follow is not just pleasure, but pain, and a couple days of soreness. Sorry the post is so long. It just upsets me that he doesn't take into consideration that I have to work tomorrow, and that it's going to wake me up and cause pain. Should I have handled it in a different way? Is there any way that I can possibly explain it better to him?
-- Candace
|
|
Return to ![[ endo@obgyn.net ]](../../images/endo_at_obgyn.gif)
Technical Problems: webmaster@obgyn.net
Last Updated: Wed Dec 2 04:03:52 2009
Women's Insurance Checklist from Auto Insurance Quote
home | medical professionals | women | industry | forums | international