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Re: ectopic pregnancy/please help
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Apr 22 17:31:43 2008
Oh Marci Honey, my heart goes out to you, I haven't any advice as I
haven't been through an eptopic pregnancy although I have miscarried
twins so I know what your loss is like. I just wanted to say to allow
yourself to grieve, it doesn't matter that you didn't know you were
pregnant, you still have the right to grieve what could have been. Be
kind to yourself and cry when you need to and get angry when you need
to. Just allow yourself to feel, it's natural, I held all my grief
inside till I could escape to the shower and sob and then come out like
everything was fine it really didn't do me any good.
Take care Wendi
At Tue, 22 Apr 2008, Marci wrote:
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>I was rushed to the E.R. yesterday morning with severe pain in my lower
>left abdomen and lower left back. This was the most excruciating pain I
>have ever experienced. I was immediately seen at the E.R. and place in
>a room where the testing began. Within two hours I was told that I was
>pregnant ( I had no idea and personally did not think I was able to get
>pregnant due to Endo however this is something my husband I have very
>much wanted and been trying for). I knew immediately that although I
>was pregnant that the news was not good first because of my pain and
>second because of the blood loss I was experiencing. Yesterday I was
>bleeding a lot and the week before I was spotting dark brown tar like
>blood. After three ultrasounds I was informed that I had an ectopic
>pregnancy that was at least two months along. My husband and I got
>married two months ago...sigh. They wanted to operate immediately
>because of the amount of blood I had already lost and the ultrasound
>showed that my pelvic was filled with blood. After the surgery I was
>told that they had to REMOVE my fallopian tube because the embryo was
>already getting large.
>I AM DEVASTATED. I feel empty and robbed not to mention the extreme
>pain my body is going through. I need to know that maybe just maybe I
>will get pregnant again. Please somebody tell me something
>good...please. I want my baby back.
>
>~ Marci Romero (formerly Marci Brown)
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