ENDO Messages for August, 2007: Hi Lauren, or x-lollypopl ?? RE;pain after sex..need advice....please!

Hi Lauren, or x-lollypopl ?? RE;pain after sex..need advice....please!

From: Loretta (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Aug 30 13:14:24 2007

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At Thu, 30 Aug 2007, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>At Thu, 12 Oct 2006, Jessica wrote:
>>
>>Im sure my advice is nothing knew. I would suggest trying positions
>>were u have control(it might not hurt during intercourse but as long as
>>you are always aware of the speed and depth, being careful not to go too
>>far in then you will hurt less afterwards. I understand the orgasm
>>pain. I too get pain on my right side. I usually have to refrain from
>>foreplay too because that will bring on the sharp pain. As for the
>>vaginal burning. This happens to me only when the sex is too rough and
>>the skin is rubbed to hard for the long time. I would suggest if its
>>the inside of your vagina peeing right away after sex to clean things
>>out and if it gets tender on the outside grabbing a ice pack put it in
>>something like a pillowcase and hold it there. Theres not much you can
>>do for the pain that comes along with sex. I suggest you let your
>>boyfriend know. Most men do not want to cause us pain and will help us
>>find ways to still make it fun without getting hurt. You can always try
>>baths, heat, packs, etc. You could ask your Dr. for a muscle relaxer.
>>I use Soma and it helps me a great deal. I hope something here helped.
>>Hope You Feel Better,
>>
>>--
>>Jessica
>>
>>At Wed, 11 Oct 2006, Kelli wrote:
>>>
>>>I know this subject has been touched on here but I need some advice. My
>>>pain does not occur during intercourse since my lap in Feb. However my
>>>pain is increasing and now after sex I am suffering terribly! If I have
>>>an orgasm it just about kills me! I get sharp stabbing pains on my rt
>>>side. I have been having stabbing pains on my lft side for yrs but the
>>>lft side pain is new and has me worried. I am going to see a Dr. who
>>>specializes in endo but have to wait a while for the apt. I just need
>>>to know how to handle this. My boyfriend just left here and my vagina
>>>is burning so badly and it hurts to walk. He does not know..I did not
>>>tell him and somehow hid it from him. I have never had this pain in my
>>>vagina before and I am so worried. Is this normal and does it mean the
>>>endo is spreading? I know the Doc will tell me more but I have to wait
>>>for an apt. In the meantime I thought maybe some of you were
>>>experiencing similar pains and had some answers for now. Sorry this is
>>>so descriptive but there is really no way to talk about it without going
>>>into details.
>>>Thanks,
>>>Kelli
>>>
>>>--
>>>Kelli
>>>
>--
>hi my name is lauren and iv been sexually abuse i was just wondering why is my vigina starting
>to get really bad gabbing pains in them
>

-- Hi Lauren

It was kind of hard for me to find your post among those older ones, but thats ok ;) I am so sorry that anything so awful as that happened to you, I hope you are finding someone to confide in to talk to, or are getting some help in coping, thats so important.

It's kind of difficualt to give you any advice on your pains with so little information, You said it's "starting", so I take it this hasnt been happening very long?... Do you have endo? It could be anything from issue's concerning this abuse, especially if it is a recent abuse, to infections or a lubrication issue,to intercourse positions...it's so hard to say. I don't know how long ago your abuse took place so I cant tell if it just occurred and this may have something to do with that. I know it such a sensitive subject and so hard to talk about, so why don't you give us just a little more info on your physical symptoms, like, do you have endo, or do you have discharge, is it happening each time or just once...do you have pain anywhere else,..?

That's a start anyway, maybe with more info someone can offer you more ideas to whats going on, I would also bring it up with your Dr just in case it is something like an infection.

Best of luck to you sweetie, Loretta EndoLights*

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