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Re: What to do
From: Confused (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue May 29 17:10:59 2007
Yes I have had Laparoscopy. My husband wants me to have a
hystorectomy...I'm only 30 years old. He said he has his future planned
out and it doesn't involve children. He doens't even have contact with
the children he has. I don't know...my doctor told me I shouldn't but
then my husband told him that we have contact with his children so my
doctor said we could do it. I don't want to, and every time we talk
about it, it turns into a fight. He's adopted and doesn't want to help
another child. I don't know, maybe i'm in the wrong forum talking about
this but I have no one else to talk too.
At Tue, 29 May 2007, anonymous wrote:
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>Have you had a laparoscopy? If you have not, you may want to consider
>it, I know from experience that having the endo removed can increase
>your chances to conceive. I conceived my 2nd child after having stage 3
>endo & having it removed. I did go through 6 months of Lupron
>injections as well which I am not sure if that helped conceive or not,
>but that was my experience-6 months after finishing my Lupron and
>regulating my cycles with the birth control patch, I conceived-3 weeks
>after ending my birth control. If you want children of your own, but
>your husband doesn't, that is another issue that needs to be worked out
>between the two of you, but if you both do want to have a child-it could
>be possible (you should discuss it with your OBGYN). Good Luck with
>everything.
>
>April
>
>At Tue, 29 May 2007, Confused wrote:
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>>This is my second marriage, I found out about 1 year ago that I had
>>endro. I had the DNC and have been off birthcontrol for over 7 years.
>>Still never to get pregnant. My husband today, finally told me that he
>>did not ever want children after 2 years of marriage. I am so
>>confused...I want children but don't know what to do. Do i leave my
>>husband and adopt or do I live with this and end up resenting my husband
>>down the road. He already has 2 children so when we got married, he
>>never said he didn't want children. It was always, not right now. I
>>need advice...I'm so confused.
>>
>>Thank you
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