ENDO Messages for May, 2007: Re: What to do

Re: What to do

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Tue May 29 16:47:36 2007

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My husband and i agreed not to have children when we married 12 years ago. But for about the past 7 years I have wanted to have children, my husband started to take me seriously a week before I was diagnosed with endo and told that I was most likely infertile. However, I have since had a 2nd surgery to get everything back in working order and my husband is now leaving the decision up to me (he gave me a month to decide) wether or not we have children. I am now 34, so the clock is ticking...

I find it to be a hard decision to make, so I had to have my month extended, my decision day is June 11th, my post-op appt.

I guess what I am trying to say is that you should have a heart to heart with your husband and explain how much it means to you to have a child, also find out what he is afraid of in regards to having another one. If you both love and respect each others feelings (especially during the discussion) you should be able to work it out.

At Tue, 29 May 2007, Confused wrote: >
>This is my second marriage, I found out about 1 year ago that I had
>endro. I had the DNC and have been off birthcontrol for over 7 years.
>Still never to get pregnant. My husband today, finally told me that he
>did not ever want children after 2 years of marriage. I am so
>confused...I want children but don't know what to do. Do i leave my
>husband and adopt or do I live with this and end up resenting my husband
>down the road. He already has 2 children so when we got married, he
>never said he didn't want children. It was always, not right now. I
>need advice...I'm so confused.
>
>Thank you

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