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Re: anyone have childrenFrom: anonymous@obgyn.netFri Jan 19 20:46:16 2007
At Fri, 19 Jan 2007, laura wrote: > >At Fri, 19 Jan 2007, tonya wrote: >> >>I have had two children both via c-section and not by choice. Since the >>last pregnancy I have had the worst endo symptoms that I have had in >>years. Having two children and living with this constant pain and mood >>swings are destroying my family. My husband forgets that I am w/PMS and >>has a hard time dealing with me. Things just fly out of my mouth and I >>can't even stop it. Did anyone's symptoms get worse after children? > >I HAVE IT WORST SINCE I HAD MY 2ND CHILD. SHE IS 10 MONTHS OLD AND IT >STARTED RIGHT AFTER SHE WAS BORN! CRAMPS ARE UNBELIVEABLE, THEY HURT SO >BAD! MY BACK CONSTANTLY HURTS AND I DONT HAVE A SEX DRIVE ANYMORE! MY >HUSBAND DOES NOT UNDERSTAND BUT IT HURTS SO THERFORE I DONT WANT TO HAVE >SEX ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW WHAT I AM GOING TO DO. I have had three children now not by choice just everytime i tried to prevent they came. After my second child i had the worst pain ever. That is when they discovered I had endo. So my doctors did the surgery then decided to put me through the lupron shots which is chemically induced menopause.. That made me the worst person ever I had no sex drive at all i hated everyone. I went through 6 months of treatment and was taken off and gave continuous bc pills i was told there was no risk of pregnancy for 2 years.. Two months later i was pregnant after the birth of my son in August 2006 i had a blood transfusion for loss of blood that they can't explain.. I am on the continuous bc pills again but it does not help.. The pain is unbearable at times the worst is when i spot i can't hardly move.. My husband hates me cause i have no desire to ave sex i do it for him but it does not do anything for me.. He sometimes thinks i am cheating on him.. Now that the pain is so bad my Ob has scheduled an colonoscopy to make sure it has not spread to my bowels because i have been having irregular bowel patterns.. After that i am going in for another laporoscopy in feb . If the surgery turns up bad then i have to have it all removed.. I am 24 what do you do when you are so young and you will be empty inside.. thank god i have 3 beautiful chidren maybe thats why they come so soon was because i would have to go through with this.. I guess the reason i am wrighting this is to say there is no cure there is nothing that helps long term.. It is great that some people don't have the pain anymore after a birth of a baby.. But I would not recommend trying that as a way to get rid of it..I think i keep asking myself should i go through with all these procedures or just live with it..
-- Vickie
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