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Re: tired, tired, tiredFrom: ada (anonymous@obgyn.net)Thu Oct 26 07:42:28 2006
Thank you Holly and Kelli for writing. It is nice to no others understand and don't judge or shake their heads at me. Today is a better day, just a little back ache, no headache and the nausea does not start until around 2. My daughter does not feel well so I called in and took the day off. I plan to get in bed with her and snuggle. I won't feel guilty about it either!! Thank you so much. > >At Wed, 25 Oct 2006, Holly wrote: >> >>At Wed, 25 Oct 2006, ada wrote: >>> >>>i am so tired. I am tired, tired, tired!! I am tired of waking up every >>>morning not feeling great. I don't always have AWFUL pain but there is >>>a little there each day. Through in the nausea, headaches and the >>>exhaustion and I am sick of it. I am not a complainer, I am a great >>>Mom, work part time, volunteer at the schools. Sometimes I feel that >>>everyone depends on me for something and that no one really gets what is >>>going on with me. My husband tries, but..I do not think he really >>>understands. And my friends will make comments like "I thought you got >>>that fixed". I wish I could just quit work. It would be one thing less >>>on my plate and give me more time to take care of myself. I do not want >>>to take time away from my kids. They deserve a good mom who is involved >>>in their lives. I want to be that. Okay, I know I am rambling. I am >>>having a moment. Thank you for letting me vent. Hope others are having >>>better days. Ada >>> >>>-- >>>Ada >>> >>Hi Ada! >>I have nothing to offer you other than I know how you feel. I'am a >>mother of three. I wake up everyday with either a little pain or ALOT >>of pain, but it's always pain. I get so tired and what hurts the most >>is that my pain never goes away even when people get tired of hearing >>me. No one understands. It's like you can only be in pain for so many >>days then they do not want to hear about it. I struggle everyday. >>Sometimes I try to hide the pain because I know that people are talking >>about me. Sometimes I feel like I am crazy. I try to convince myself >>everyday that it is not my fault that I hurt even if no one wants to >>hear about it. I also feel the same way about my husband. I'am always >>sooo tired. I to want to be that great mother and I will go down >>fighting to stay that way, but it does get hard. Some days I just wish >>that I could stay in bed and sleep. I hope that it makes you feel >>better to know that I do understand even if I can't do anything for you. >>Holly > > Hi Ada! >Boy do we probably all know how you are feeling! I too have no advice to >offer but I guess it helps to get it out! I am so exhausted all of the >time that I think I will go crazy. The pain drives me insane and I know >what you mean about people getting tired of hearing about it. I too >have tried to hide it sometimes I just can't. I had a lap 9 months ago >and am now waiting to see a specialist, the pain is worse than before >the first lap. So all I can offer you is my sympathy...I totally know >how you are feeling. I have 3 kids and am trying to keep up with it >all. The kids are at their Dads a fair bit so I do have some down time. >Yesterday I slept from 5pm until 9:30 am in between waking up once in a >while due to pain and discomfort. I needed it. Hope you can find a >break for yourself and some relief from the pain. I think you started a >venting posting here...LOL! Maybe it will make us feel better for a few >minutes to get it off of our chest!! Wishing you a paion free day and a >moment of sanity somewhere along the line! Hang in there! You know you >are not alone and at aleast here you can vent and know we totally know >where your frustration is coming from! >Hugs, >Kelli
-- Ada
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