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Re: being picked on about the disease : TO school teacher
From: Misty (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Aug 13 18:25:59 2006
Hello,
I in no way shape or form want to be involved in your family mess. This
site was designed for women who have a disease and need support. I
found your response was unneccesary due to the fact that we are all on a
first name basis and we are here to help one another. Maybe Sharon's
feelings were hurt and she has that right to feel that way and was
venting to us. You on the other hand have tainted this site for
unnecessary purposes. We did not want or need to know the indepth
problems in your family. You have not contributed to this site none
what so ever. If you would have read carefully what Sharon wrote she
added no names, locations or court battles etc, etc. Due to your
insensitivity towards this site and what we are trying to accomplish
here Sharon's husband felt that he had to justify his wife. He nor
Sharon should not have been put in that situation at all. You talked in
your post about intruding and I truly believe that you have. You could
have left your comments for an e-mail to Sharon and her husband and not
here, leaving them to justify themselves. For that you are very wrong.
Now, because of you coming on here we know more about the situation than
what was first mentioned. That is very wrong of you. This site if for
people like Sharon to feel safe about talking about what hey are going
through and their feelings. You should be ashamed of yourself for not
letting her come here freely!!!! What was your purpose. Did she mention
names? I am so aggrivated at this.
Please do not post here again with your dilemas that have nothing to do
with this site.
Misty
Sat, 12 Aug 2006, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>
>All Ladies who responded to Sharon's post,
>
>I read what you guys wrote about me being insensitive to my
>"sister-in-law's" disease, and I dont blame you for being angry. I in
>no way meant to belittle a true disease and I wont get into the
>conversation that took place nor will I tell you about the cruel things
>Sharon has been doing to my sister who just had a stroke......but what I
>would like to tell you is that there is a lawsuit taking place between
>us (initiated by Sharon and my brother) and tempers are flaring right
>now. It's a family dispute and that is all and you can believe that
>Sharon has thrown more hurtful responses than I have ever thrown before.
>I will never post here again and dont wish to intrude on a website that
>is not intended for this type of stuff. Just wanted to post and clear
>my name since I received copies of your responses from Sharon and had to
>respond being that Sharon is trying to make herself the victim and that
>is just not so.
>
>I wish you all well and hope that you are living the pain free days you
>so hope for.
>
>At Thu, 10 Aug 2006, Misty wrote:
>>
>>Sharon,
>>I am so sorry to hear that your sister-in-law is bieng rather rude to
>>you. Some people in life just can't take something happening to someone
>>else because the attention comes off of them. I have had some family
>>members just sluff it off and said that I will be o.k. once I have the
>>surgery and hey, it's not cancer so your good.
>>Jealousy rears it's ugly head in numerous ways. We don't understand how
>>people can be so insensitive but it happens. My advice would be to
>>completely shut her out of your medical problems. And when she asks
>>about it then fire away. Just know that you have alot of support here.
>>I know that we can't be there physically to cheer you up but it does
>>help to talk to people that are hurting the same way you are. And going
>>thrugh very similar situations. I just hope that you have a good
>>support system in everyone else around you. That will make up for the
>>ones that just sluff it.
>> And always remember that what comes around definately goes around!!!!
>> PAin free days to all,
>> Misty
>>
>>At Thu, 10 Aug 2006, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>>>
>>>F**K her!!! And you can show her this if you want!!!!! How very rude and
>>>offensive. Only you know how bad it feels and everyone else who suffers
>>>with this. It is the worse god damn pain I've ever had to go through.
>>>It baffles me that people can have that attitude especially a woman! We
>>>don't think you're a cry baby so by pass this insensitive soul and seek
>>>advice and virtual hugs from here from now onwards!
>>>Chin up honey!
>>>x
>>>
>>>At Wed, 9 Aug 2006, Sharon wrote:
>>>>
>>>>Hello all,
>>>>
>>>>Im so sad and hurt because my sister inlaw tells me today im a whiner
>>>>and just a cry baby about this disease when i never ever called them to
>>>>ask them to come over or to tell them about how i feel all because i
>>>>sent one pc of literure about it.
>>>>some people can be so dam crule
>>>>
>>>>sharon
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