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Re: Cant stop cyring...From: Clarice (anonymous@obgyn.net)Fri Jul 28 10:48:55 2006
At Fri, 28 Jul 2006, Alyson wrote: > >Jessica, >I agree with Misty. It is a really hard thing to do, but counseling can >be such an asset in times like these. If you are in collegem there may >be some psychological services through the campus wellness program. When >I got to the point that I felt emotionally out of control, crying all >the time, depressed, lost...I finally called an made an appointment with >a counselor. I saw her for about five months and she really helped me >figure out how to cope. I won't say that there aren't still hard days >where I need to just have a good cry, but I feel so much more in control >of myself. I can now step back a little better and try to make some >decisions about life. >It is so heartbreaking when your doctor tells you that you have "a >window" to have children. Especially if you are not in a place where >you are ready to make that decision. As for your boyfriend, it can be >very overwhealming for any man to have someone that they love be so sick >and in pain...and not know what to do to help them. Alot of men are not >raised to understand how to show emotion or provide emotional support. I >had to flat out say to my husband "I don't need you to fix it for me, I >just need you to hold me" It made all the difference in the world. >Alyson > >At Fri, 28 Jul 2006, Jessica wrote: >> >>Okay I know this isnt a whole lot really endo related but I need another >>womens adivce. Im going through some really rough things right now. On >>top of being stressed out from pain I now have no insurance. On top of >>that my boyfriend of 3 years moved out a few months ago. It was ok at >>first but now I jsut dont feel like things are the same between us. I >>feel like Im having to blame myself because I'm really emotionallly and >>cranky and he just couldnt handle it. I also have this thing in the >>back of my head. He's always said hes not the marrying type and I've >>always wanted to have a husband later in life and have kids. I'm only >>20 now but I feel like since were never going to get married and the Dr. >>told me I only have a small window of time to have kids that maybe we >>shouldnt be together. I'll have days where him and I will talk and >>things will be great. Then the next day he'll call and ill jsut be >>crying and feeling bad for no reason. I dont know how to get it through >>to him that I just need him to kind of ignore my crying fits and tell me >>everythings going to be ok. I feel so emotional all the time. Its like >>anything can and will make me cry and I hate feeling this way. Has >>anyone else out there ever felt like this and how did you start feeling >>better and stop feeling sorry for yourself? >> >>-- >>Jessica >>
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