ENDO Messages for July, 2006: Re: Cant stop cyring...

Re: Cant stop cyring...

From: Alyson (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Jul 28 10:07:02 2006

Messages sorted by: [ date ][ thread ][ subject ][ author ]
Next message: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."
Previous message: Alyson: "Re: NEED SUPPORT - GETTING READY TO BE ON LUPRON TREATMENTS"
In reply to: Jessica: "Cant stop cyring..."
Next in thread: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."
Reply: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."

Jessica, I agree with Misty. It is a really hard thing to do, but counseling can be such an asset in times like these. If you are in collegem there may be some psychological services through the campus wellness program. When I got to the point that I felt emotionally out of control, crying all the time, depressed, lost...I finally called an made an appointment with a counselor. I saw her for about five months and she really helped me figure out how to cope. I won't say that there aren't still hard days where I need to just have a good cry, but I feel so much more in control of myself. I can now step back a little better and try to make some decisions about life. It is so heartbreaking when your doctor tells you that you have "a window" to have children. Especially if you are not in a place where you are ready to make that decision. As for your boyfriend, it can be very overwhealming for any man to have someone that they love be so sick and in pain...and not know what to do to help them. Alot of men are not raised to understand how to show emotion or provide emotional support. I had to flat out say to my husband "I don't need you to fix it for me, I just need you to hold me" It made all the difference in the world. Alyson

At Fri, 28 Jul 2006, Jessica wrote: >
>Okay I know this isnt a whole lot really endo related but I need another
>womens adivce. Im going through some really rough things right now. On
>top of being stressed out from pain I now have no insurance. On top of
>that my boyfriend of 3 years moved out a few months ago. It was ok at
>first but now I jsut dont feel like things are the same between us. I
>feel like Im having to blame myself because I'm really emotionallly and
>cranky and he just couldnt handle it. I also have this thing in the
>back of my head. He's always said hes not the marrying type and I've
>always wanted to have a husband later in life and have kids. I'm only
>20 now but I feel like since were never going to get married and the Dr.
>told me I only have a small window of time to have kids that maybe we
>shouldnt be together. I'll have days where him and I will talk and
>things will be great. Then the next day he'll call and ill jsut be
>crying and feeling bad for no reason. I dont know how to get it through
>to him that I just need him to kind of ignore my crying fits and tell me
>everythings going to be ok. I feel so emotional all the time. Its like
>anything can and will make me cry and I hate feeling this way. Has
>anyone else out there ever felt like this and how did you start feeling
>better and stop feeling sorry for yourself?
>
>--
>Jessica
>

Next message: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."
Previous message: Alyson: "Re: NEED SUPPORT - GETTING READY TO BE ON LUPRON TREATMENTS"
In reply to: Jessica: "Cant stop cyring..."
Next in thread: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."
Reply: Clarice: "Re: Cant stop cyring..."

Women's Insurance Checklist from Auto Insurance Quote

use when must restrict search to only the endometriosis forum...
Enter search keywords:
	Returns per screen: Require all keywords: