ENDO Messages for July, 2006: Re: Cant stop cyring... To Jessica

Re: Cant stop cyring... To Jessica

From: Misty (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Jul 28 09:12:50 2006

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Jessica, I too have been through stages in my life like this. I think that at some point or another we all over look our emotional state. If it is getting to hard for you to cope with everything that is going on in your life I suggest that you seek counseling. You need to have a strong backboard to get through times like this and maybe they can help you create one. I have also been through relationships like you have. You just need to ask yourself if YOU are truly happy with how things are between you and your boyfriend. Sometimes it is hard for others to deal with the emotional and physical aspects of having a disease. Right now YOU are the one thing that should be important in YOUR life. And You need to find out what may or may not be good for you at this point. I am not here to tell you what to do in your relationship just trying to give some advice. Take a couple of days and don't talk to him and see how you feel about that. I would hate for you to keep pushing for something that truly doesn't make you happy because of your time line with having children. Sometimes when you have been in a relationship for a long time you get in a rut. It happens to everyone. We all know how difficult it is to break free of those ruts. Just do a little reflection on everything. Also throw in positive points also. Sometimes it is hard to find the positive but sweety it is there somewhere. Feel free to e-mail me personally. If you do make sure you say in the message line that you are from this site. I also talk to a couple other people from here personally. Take care of yourself. I hope everything pans out for you. Pain free days, Misty

At Fri, 28 Jul 2006, Jessica wrote: >
>Okay I know this isnt a whole lot really endo related but I need another
>womens adivce. Im going through some really rough things right now. On
>top of being stressed out from pain I now have no insurance. On top of
>that my boyfriend of 3 years moved out a few months ago. It was ok at
>first but now I jsut dont feel like things are the same between us. I
>feel like Im having to blame myself because I'm really emotionallly and
>cranky and he just couldnt handle it. I also have this thing in the
>back of my head. He's always said hes not the marrying type and I've
>always wanted to have a husband later in life and have kids. I'm only
>20 now but I feel like since were never going to get married and the Dr.
>told me I only have a small window of time to have kids that maybe we
>shouldnt be together. I'll have days where him and I will talk and
>things will be great. Then the next day he'll call and ill jsut be
>crying and feeling bad for no reason. I dont know how to get it through
>to him that I just need him to kind of ignore my crying fits and tell me
>everythings going to be ok. I feel so emotional all the time. Its like
>anything can and will make me cry and I hate feeling this way. Has
>anyone else out there ever felt like this and how did you start feeling
>better and stop feeling sorry for yourself?
>
>--
>Jessica
>

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