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NEED SUPPORT - GETTING READY TO BE ON LUPRON TREATMENTSFrom: Lisa (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed Jul 26 23:31:59 2006
I am just looking for someone to respond or talk to. I was told 5 years ago that my pain was from scar tissue from my first child(i had a c-section), 2 laoroscopies later, I had a doctor tell me I was making up the pain. When I got pregnant with my last 2 children it went away while I was pregnant, then just like after the surgeries it came back 3 months later. Personally I am tired of not being able to play with my kids, laying on the couch in pain all the time, being tired, fatigued, and taking pain meds. Next month I am starting the Lupron treatment & was wondering if anyone has taken that & how it helped or not helped. I am tired of my husband forcing the issue on sex, when he knows it is painfull, or better yet telling me that I am using my medical issues as an excuse not to make love to him, or him telling me I am making it out to be worse than it really is. Is there any online support groups for husbands? Maybe if he heard from other men, he would seem to understand more. Cause me telling him every day what I am going through is getting old. It is like he asks me everyday what is wrong & everyday it is the same answer, but it seems to be that he is not even trying to understand or even listen when I tell him. Please HELP!!! How do I cope with this. It is hard being 25 with 3 kids & dealing with the endo & my husband. These past 6 months or so, I have even thought of us splitting up, cause I just can't take the forcing of having sex, or even waking up with him on top of me. I was raped as a teenager, & I have tried to explain to him not only is it painful due to what I am going through, but also when you are sleeping, & you wake up with someone one top of you, it makes you first think that someone is raping you again. You would never think that the person you married & love so much & that is supposed to love you back would do something like that. He does this at least 3 maybe 4 times a week & personally I get more & more discusted with him each time, to where I don't even want to show any affection to him, even if it is not sexual. I NEED HELP - ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS?
-- Lisa - Painfull in Kansas City
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