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Re: Do gynocologist know if you are sexually active?

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Dec 17 12:57:09 2005


Again, what place does nonsense like this have here?

At Sat, 17 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote: >
>How is it that you figure I slammed her? And if she's 'just a little
>girl' then why is she concerned about her gynecologist knowing whether
>or not she is sexually active? Little girls don't worry about things
>like that, confused big girls who want to be treated like adults worry
>about things like that and all I did was tell her that if she is going
>to behave like an adult then she should show all the responsibilities
>for her behavior like an adult which means not trying to fool your
>doctor. Sheesh!
>
>Lying to her doctor about being sexually active will only cause her harm
>as he will then not know to check her for STDs or to discuss safe sex
>and birth control with her. How do you think that telling her that is
>NOT helping her? How do you think that is 'tooting my own crap horn'?
>
>How about YOU leave here, Tara - because obviously you would rather see
>a little girl like this suffer the ravages of ignorance. My only
>problem in the entire world is people like you who are so fond of the
>taste of sand that you can't be bothered to lift your head up and see
>the real world around you. You go through life with blinders and ear
>plugs refusing to see or hear anything that doesn't fit your idea of
>what the world should be like instead of seeing it for what it is - an
>amazing adventure full of hazards and rewards and if you don't stay
>alert you will find yourself empty-handed at the end of the road....
>sad.
>
>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, Tara wrote:
>>
>>I can't believe you would respond like this to a little girl. You are
>>the one who needs to grow up and get it together. This little girl was
>>looking for info. and you slammed her for no reason except you've got
>>problems. Lay off!!! This site is for helping people not being a you
>>know what. Go toot your crap horn on another site it's not wanted here.
>>
>>--
>>Tara
>>
>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>
>>>Dear sensitive anonymous,
>>>
>>>Facts are not scare tactics and I'm not trying to scare anyone. You
>>>should be aware of what is going on around you, you should be alert to
>>>invasions of your privacy and it is quite apparently obvious that each
>>>of the girls who asked that question already had fear so how is it that
>>>you have jumped to the conclusion that I am issuing forth a scare
>>>tactic? If you're scared, then of what?
>>>
>>>(in the voice of Andy Rooney) Did you ever notice that super-sensitive
>>>people are able to jump enormous distances to the most obsure
>>>conclusions bearing no resemblance to truth and yet are amazingly blind
>>>to the facts in front of them?
>>>
>>>Window #5 is now taking bets that there will soon be a crapstorm of
>>>indignant posts telling me how evil I am, blah blah blah...save it, I
>>>don't care. Facts are facts and those who choose to arm themselves with
>>>facts will survive while all those too frightened to raise their heads
>>>out of the sand will be trampled under political greed and hate mongers.
>>>Read this: http://www.epic.org/
>>>
>>>I shall remove my tongue from my cheek so as not to bite it while I
>>>dine.
>>>
>>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>>
>>>>I really don't think your scare tactics belong here.
>>>>
>>>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>Your gynecologist NEEDS TO KNOW if you are sexually active... uh,
>>>>>that's one of the reasons WHY you go to a gynecologist, unless of course
>>>>>you are looking forward to seeing an obstetrician who most certainly
>>>>>will know you've been sexually active - at least once.
>>>>>
>>>>>Lighten up Britney, if you're old enough to participate in the adult
>>>>>activities of sex then you are certainly old enough to behave like an
>>>>>adult about the subject with your doctor. What has you worried? Is the
>>>>>guy someone your parent's hate? Is he someone you probably shouldn't be
>>>>>with? Are you not old enough? Are you sneaking around behind your
>>>>>parent's back? Are you afraid the doctor will tell your parents?
>>>>>
>>>>>Sadly that is a genuine fear, as American politics 'progress' you are
>>>>>losing more and more of your rights that Americans once thought were so
>>>>>personal and precious. Your medical records are soon to become
>>>>>completely open to anyone who wants to see them. Pharmaceutical
>>>>>companies will be able to find out what medications you take and why so
>>>>>they can tailor marketing direct to consumers, insurance companies will
>>>>>once again be allowed to discriminate against coverage for people who
>>>>>they feel will be 'costly' to them. Your employer will know all about
>>>>>your hemorroids. I wish I was joking.
>>>>>Read this: http://www.epic.org/
>>>>>
>>>>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, Britney wrote:
>>>>>At Mon, 6 Aug 2001, Luisa wrote:
>>>>>At Sat, 4 Aug 2001, anonymous wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>I want to know if the gynocologist knows if you are sexually active?
>>




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