Re: Do gynocologist know if you are sexually active?
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Dec 17 10:52:30 2005
How is it that you figure I slammed her? And if she's 'just a little
girl' then why is she concerned about her gynecologist knowing whether
or not she is sexually active? Little girls don't worry about things
like that, confused big girls who want to be treated like adults worry
about things like that and all I did was tell her that if she is going
to behave like an adult then she should show all the responsibilities
for her behavior like an adult which means not trying to fool your
doctor. Sheesh!
Lying to her doctor about being sexually active will only cause her harm
as he will then not know to check her for STDs or to discuss safe sex
and birth control with her. How do you think that telling her that is
NOT helping her? How do you think that is 'tooting my own crap horn'?
How about YOU leave here, Tara - because obviously you would rather see
a little girl like this suffer the ravages of ignorance. My only
problem in the entire world is people like you who are so fond of the
taste of sand that you can't be bothered to lift your head up and see
the real world around you. You go through life with blinders and ear
plugs refusing to see or hear anything that doesn't fit your idea of
what the world should be like instead of seeing it for what it is - an
amazing adventure full of hazards and rewards and if you don't stay
alert you will find yourself empty-handed at the end of the road....
sad.
At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, Tara wrote:
>
>I can't believe you would respond like this to a little girl. You are
>the one who needs to grow up and get it together. This little girl was
>looking for info. and you slammed her for no reason except you've got
>problems. Lay off!!! This site is for helping people not being a you
>know what. Go toot your crap horn on another site it's not wanted here.
>
>--
>Tara
>
>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>
>>Dear sensitive anonymous,
>>
>>Facts are not scare tactics and I'm not trying to scare anyone. You
>>should be aware of what is going on around you, you should be alert to
>>invasions of your privacy and it is quite apparently obvious that each
>>of the girls who asked that question already had fear so how is it that
>>you have jumped to the conclusion that I am issuing forth a scare
>>tactic? If you're scared, then of what?
>>
>>(in the voice of Andy Rooney) Did you ever notice that super-sensitive
>>people are able to jump enormous distances to the most obsure
>>conclusions bearing no resemblance to truth and yet are amazingly blind
>>to the facts in front of them?
>>
>>Window #5 is now taking bets that there will soon be a crapstorm of
>>indignant posts telling me how evil I am, blah blah blah...save it, I
>>don't care. Facts are facts and those who choose to arm themselves with
>>facts will survive while all those too frightened to raise their heads
>>out of the sand will be trampled under political greed and hate mongers.
>>Read this: http://www.epic.org/
>>
>>I shall remove my tongue from my cheek so as not to bite it while I
>>dine.
>>
>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>
>>>I really don't think your scare tactics belong here.
>>>
>>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>>
>>>>Your gynecologist NEEDS TO KNOW if you are sexually active... uh,
>>>>that's one of the reasons WHY you go to a gynecologist, unless of course
>>>>you are looking forward to seeing an obstetrician who most certainly
>>>>will know you've been sexually active - at least once.
>>>>
>>>>Lighten up Britney, if you're old enough to participate in the adult
>>>>activities of sex then you are certainly old enough to behave like an
>>>>adult about the subject with your doctor. What has you worried? Is the
>>>>guy someone your parent's hate? Is he someone you probably shouldn't be
>>>>with? Are you not old enough? Are you sneaking around behind your
>>>>parent's back? Are you afraid the doctor will tell your parents?
>>>>
>>>>Sadly that is a genuine fear, as American politics 'progress' you are
>>>>losing more and more of your rights that Americans once thought were so
>>>>personal and precious. Your medical records are soon to become
>>>>completely open to anyone who wants to see them. Pharmaceutical
>>>>companies will be able to find out what medications you take and why so
>>>>they can tailor marketing direct to consumers, insurance companies will
>>>>once again be allowed to discriminate against coverage for people who
>>>>they feel will be 'costly' to them. Your employer will know all about
>>>>your hemorroids. I wish I was joking.
>>>>Read this: http://www.epic.org/
>>>>
>>>>At Fri, 16 Dec 2005, Britney wrote:
>>>>At Mon, 6 Aug 2001, Luisa wrote:
>>>>At Sat, 4 Aug 2001, anonymous wrote:
>>>>
>>>>I want to know if the gynocologist knows if you are sexually active?
>
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