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Re: can anyone help meFrom: Robbie (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed Dec 14 11:01:37 2005
First, you forget about the psuedo boyfriend. He isn't worth your time hun. If he loved you he would want to be with you no matter what. He is using this as an excuse to walk away. I know that I have recently gotten engaged to a wonderful man who does actually want to be with me for better or worse. He is there for me when I am in pain and in the good times. If this other man isn't there for you now during the pain and challenges it just shows the type of character (lack there of) that he has inside of him and the lack of respect for you. I say GOOD RIDDENCE! Move on with your life hun, don't wallow in the past or even think about this man. If you let him know that if he did indeed love you and want to be with you but only if you are well, then he is placing a condition upon his love. I don't know about you but if someone loves you it should be UNCONDITIONAL. Not, well, if you are healthy I will love you, if you are skinny I'll love you. The reality of life is that we all will have times of turmoil in our lives and our physical bodies will change in many ways. I wish you a powerful internal healing for both your spirit and your body. I know it may be difficult to hear the words I am saying but believe me you don't want someone to sugar coat it for you. If he loved you as you say he would remain by your side and do all in his power to help you. You need an emotional healing as well as a physical one. The one can effect the other. Just realize that he isn't worth your tears or time. You are one special lady and deserve to be cherished and treated like the queen you should be. We are all queens in our Father's kingdom...being treated as anything less isn't worth your time hun. On the medical side if you are taking care of you as the doctors are instructing you should begin to feel better. Make sure to communicate with the doctors every little problem. Note them down, keep a running pad or notebook with you at all times. I know that something that seems trivial to us may not be to them it may help them better serve your physical needs. I am sorry that you are going through what you are going through. I don't know what your beliefs are but as for mine I believe that the Lord doesn't give us more than we can handle and that often the challenges we encounter are character building or breaking. So for better or worse, take a hold on your physical and emotional well being. I will say a prayer for you not only for your health but for your heart as well.
At Tue, 13 Dec 2005, Leigh wrote:
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