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Re: can anyone help meFrom: Jennifer (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue Dec 13 21:32:20 2005
Jasmin, This is very hard for me to respond to, as it's obviously a sensitive subject and I don't want to upset you further -- and I also don't know much about your situation or your relationship with your boyfriend. But, based on the little bit that you have shared in this post, I will say that it's best to work to move on from this relationship in your life and to find other outlets of joy in your life. As well, as finding other sources of support. I don't mean to be rude, but his response to your illness sounds like a cop out to me, or it could simply be the extreme example of how many men deal with things like this...avoidance. Either way, as hard as it may get for him, I think that he should be there for you. It's not really fair that he bails and waits for better days, leaving you to cope all alone. It's not a true partnership unless you both stick around for the good times and the bad, even when the bad is outweighing the good. This is just my opinion. But please, as I said, get some support from somebody reliable, and when your emotions are calmed down, think about if this guy is really worth your grief and if he'll be there to help out if you get better, then feel bad again. Also, please realize that you have support here. I know we're not partners and we can't even give you a big hug when you need it, but we're here nonetheless, and you can turn to us whenever you need to. Good luck to you. Jennifer A.
At Tue, 13 Dec 2005, JR wrote:
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