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Re: Miserable, can you help?
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Nov 29 10:06:38 2005
Lori,
Wish I could help with the husband troubles...but who can figure men
out? About the stomach problems, though...has your gallbladder been
checked both for stones and for function? I had similiar problems to
what you are describing and was checked for stones. I had no stones, so
I suffered for two more years before a doc introduced me to a function
test. Mine was barely functioning (like at 20% or less). I had my
gallbladder out and have been much better since. Maybe you can bring
this up when you go to the doc?
Good luck to you, I hope your husband figures out that he should be
thankful for what he has and not resentful for what he doesn't have, he
could be all alone!!
At Tue, 29 Nov 2005, Lori wrote:
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>Hello,
>It has been a while since I have written for help. I don't know what is
>going on with me? I have to make my appt. with my gyn. today. Forgot
>the # at work so I have to wait til I get home this afternoon. Anyways,
>I am scared about that. I haven't been to a doctor for my endo in a
>long time. I also am going to ask her about the adendomyosis that anon.
>has told me about. Anyways, I got over my period from h_ll. IT was
>awful. Lots of bleeding, lots of pain. My legs felt like they were
>numb. It hurt so bad. THen ever since my period I have had lots of
>pains in my ovaries and my stomach. Having a hard time eating. I mean,
>I get hungry, but I pay the consequences after I eat. I have sharp pain
>in my upper right abdomen afterwards. I don't want to have any sexual
>relations with my husband. He doesn't get it, he never will, lost any
>hope on that one. I am in constant pain and I am a mom of 2 kids, my
>daughter is 5 and my son (the wild man) just turned 1 and he is a
>handful. I just can't keep up and my husband sure likes to sneak in
>snide remarks about this and that. He said that I need to do better on
>house work. So I took yesterday off and cleaned the house for 7 hours
>straight, he barely said a thing and quickly abused it by not picking up
>after himself and not helping. What is the deal. I am not fricking
>super women. I hurt, I need help and I just want a little bit of
>support from the man I married. Apparently that is too much to ask for.
>(thanks for the raging fit you just allowed me to have) anyways, don't
>know when this doc. appt will be and i just want some help up to that
>time and what I should do or say at the doc. I am going to ask her for
>a full exam, it has been a while. I was due for a pap in April, didn't
>get it ( I know, dumb me) but I am doing it now. Anyways, any tips for
>me, I am desperate!
>Thanks~
>Hugs~`
>Lori D.
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