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Re: What could be happening? Way worse pain after my lap.--to anonymous
From: m (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Oct 15 16:38:59 2005
actually i did NOT exaggerate. i said im taking 35 mg of med. to avoid
the ER and that is true (i cant afford to go there, my last visit cost
me 1200$). it seems like in all your posts you have just wanted to
argue and not admit any fault, so i will just ignore your posts from now
on--dont want to subject myself to your negativity and assumptions. your
posts really aren't worth any furher comment.
m
At Sat, 15 Oct 2005, anonymous wrote:
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>No Maria, I do not expect her to be 100% concise and clear when she's
>freaking out about terrible pain - but if the pain was terrible enough
>to be freaking out shouldn't she have been in the ER?
>
>Did I deserve what she threw at me? NO, I did not.
>
>I think that m exaggerated in her post and so when I made the mistake of
>taking what she was saying 100% seriously as being complete fact I was
>very concerned that she may be very seriously ill.
>
>If you don't like my advice then just simply don't take it and move on
>you do not need or have the right to be so judgmental about people!
>
>At Sat, 15 Oct 2005, Maria wrote:
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>>Wow that was really nasty, chill out. This place is for support, not
>>attacks. You expect her to be 100% concice and clear when she's
>>freaking out about terrible pain? COme on, now. Just a friendly
>>reminder to just.. chill.
>>
>>At Fri, 14 Oct 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>
>>>Okay m, I did go back and re-read your post and nope, you did not say
>>>that you had been in touch with your doctor. You said that you already
>>>had appointments coming up in the next week or two - so, how was I
>>>supposed to know that this meant you had spoken with your doctor since
>>>these new symptoms showed up - especially when you said this: "i have
>>>thrown up eitherf from pain or from the strong doeses of pain meds ive
>>>had to take to try to reduce the pain so i wont have togo to the ER."
>>>
>>>So sorry I have committed the mortal of sin of not reading between your
>>>vague lines and showing concern for your health - you can be sure I will
>>>never make that mistake again.
>>>
>>>Ta
>>>
>>>At Fri, 14 Oct 2005, m wrote:
>>>>
>>>>you want to know what im waiting for? what im waiting for is the
>>>>upcoming appointmets i have made with my local dcotor and the xray
>>>>clinic for an ultraosund! these are the appointmnets my doctor who
>>>>performed my lap told me to make in response to my new symptoms. Im not
>>>>sure why you are making the assumption that I am sitting "silently"
>>>>instead of contacting a medical professional. I have done that and my
>>>>post clearly states that ive talked to my dr. and that I have these
>>>>appointments coming up. Im not sure if you actually read my post.
>>>>please do so next time before making assumptions and generalizin about
>>>>what "we women" do.
>>>>
>>>>At Fri, 14 Oct 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>Why is that we (women) tend to choose to suffer silently through
>>>>>troubling symptoms instead of following the advice we would give anyone
>>>>>else which would be CALL YOUR DOCTOR and make an appointment. A sudden
>>>>>increase or return of symptoms out of synch with the expected course is
>>>>>a warning signal that something may be wrong. It is possible that you
>>>>>tore something, developed an infection, have developed some nasty
>>>>>adhesions or any number of things, stop waiting for whatever it is
>>>>>you're waiting for and get your butt in the doctor's office.
>>>>>
>>>>>At Fri, 14 Oct 2005, m wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>My doctor told me to expect to be healed about 2 mos. after surgery and
>>>>>>to expect my 3rd menstrual cycle after surgery to be the one where I
>>>>>>will hopefully expereince some pain releif . but he also said by this
>>>>>>point in my recoery i should not need to be on pain medcines at all (but
>>>>>>in the past week Ive had to go from taking like 5 mg of med every 6
>>>>>>hrs.(I was in the proces of tapering down to get of the medicine
>>>>>>completley) to taking like 35 mgs every 3-4 hours!) Stage 2 endo was
>>>>>>excised. during my lap. i also got a presacral neurectomy.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>what I am finding really weird is that both this month and last month i
>>>>>>seemed to be healing and my pain was reducing. i was able to lower the
>>>>>>amount of pain medication that i was taking and seemed to be on the path
>>>>>>to getting better, at least from the surgery tiself if not from my usual
>>>>>>endo pain. then when it got to be about 2 weeks before my peiod, my
>>>>>>pain skyrocketed (this is about the same point in my cycle where ive
>>>>>>always started expereincing really strong pain), and kept going up.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>right now im about 10 days away from my period and my pain is way more
>>>>>>intense than it has ever been at this point in my cycle. usually mymost
>>>>>>unbearable pan happens when i get my period, but right ow its so bad it
>>>>>>feels like i have my perid even though tis not due for a week and a
>>>>>>half. i have thrown up eitherf from pain or from the strong doeses of
>>>>>>pain meds ive had to take to try to reduce the pain so i wont have togo
>>>>>>to the ER.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>i do have a pelvic exam and ultrasoud coming up in the next week or two,
>>>>>>but I am wondering if anyone knows why my pain was getting so much
>>>>>>better then suddenyl became like 10 times worse in amatter of days. ha
>>>>>>anyone had tis same type of expereince? basically i fi went back to
>>>>>>being how i was before the surgery, that would suck. but i never
>>>>>>thought id be not only not better, but that id be worse! i hope this is
>>>>>>temproary because it is really scary tothink my pain has now increased,
>>>>>>when i felt it wa s unbearable even the way it was bfore!
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I appreciate any responses and sorry if i kind f keep asking the same
>>>>>>question over in diferent ways (im not sure but i might sort of be doig
>>>>>>that) I just dont know what im doing or whats going on with me and Im
>>>>>>freaked out. my doctor has not given an epxlanation that really
>>>>>>expalins this to me.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Thanks everyone!
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