ENDO Messages for September, 2005: Re: scared of not being able to have children!!!

Re: scared of not being able to have children!!!

From: Lori (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Sep 29 09:32:33 2005

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Taylor, I don't really know what to say besides. I was 19 when I was diagnosed. My husband and I were married at the time. We were married out of high school. I love him, and he is important to me, but we are having some difficulties. I don't believe the difficulties are due to the fact that we were married so young. Although I do regret not having a chance to do the things I wanted. WE have faced a lot in our life. Struggling with infertility, losing our son when he was only 6 hours old. Financial difficulties due to medical treatment. People say that is when you should pull together, but they are also people who haven't gone through these things. It is more common then not for a couple to detached from eachother when a child dies. It is hard for us to stay focused on eachother. Our lives seem to be going down seperate paths. We lost one child, but we have 2 beautiful children. A daughter, she is five and in kindergarten (busy life style) and a 1 year old son. It keeps me hopping along with my 2 jobs. he has a busy work schedule, we don't see eachother and it seems like when we do, he wants to squeeze in some sex there. Hard for me to handle and deal with. He can't understand. This endo is tearing us a part. Now after saying all that, I am not saying it to discourage you, because only you and your boyfriend know your love for eachother. No one else can say anything about that. I'm so glad that he has stuck with you through this. It is almost a test. I wasn't diagnosed until after we were married for a year, you on the other hand have been diagnosed and if he wanted to, he could've left and he didn't so that surely stands for something. Just to let you know, I was diagnosed and 2 years later was pregnant. It wasn't easy, it was down right hard, but it did happen and I was diagnosed with stage 4 endo. Check into your options, see what your doctor says. Make sure you two are ready and shoot for the stars. Good luck my dear and let us know how things turn out. Take care! Hugs~ Lori D.

At Wed, 28 Sep 2005, Taylor wrote: >
>Hi i have endo and have been dealing with it since I was 15 and I'm now
>17 i have a wonderful boyfriend that has been with me through this whole
>ordeal and is the most understanding person in my life! We plan on
>getting married as soon as possible because we both want children.
>Everyone tells me I'm too young to have kids and that is rediculas! Well
>i would rather have me kids at a young age than not have them at all! My
>boyfriend and i are ready to take that step if we have to! i thought I
>would have a little more time to grow up but that is looking like it
>wont happen what do you all think? Thanks Taylor

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