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Re: Pain-does it stop?
From: Alyson (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Sep 9 16:07:01 2005
Hey Lori,
I have no children, and can't imagine what it must be like to lose one.
I am sure your ability to deal with your grief right now is not helped
by your pain. I've noticed that as things have progressed with me I'll
have alot of pain after my period. I don't know why, its just there.
I'm sorry you don't feel like you can talk to your family and friends. I
know there comes a point where they just don't know what to say any
longer. Try to take some time to relax until you are feeling better. As
for the loss of your son...maybe there was some meaning in his brief
time with you and you can find some comfort in that. I wish I could be
of more help.
Best wishes
Alyson
At Fri, 9 Sep 2005, Lori wrote:
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>Hi girls,
>I am having a hard time the last couple of days. Yesterday was very
>hard. I was in a lot of pain. I felt like I had my period, but it
>ended last week. I felt achy, had pains, had major pms and I was so
>tired. I also had an awful headache and I had times of really short
>breath. I would feel dizzy at times. When I sat down, it helped some,
>but it would eventually come back. I don't understand it. I usually
>feel my worst during my period and then rest of the month, I hurt, but
>not as bad, but yesterday was bad. I don't know what I should do and I
>don't know what options to explore. I should probably go to the doc, I
>know that, but what kind of doc, a gyn or somthing else? I am wanting to
>make the right decision because I really can't afford going from doc to
>doc. I am frustrated, sad, hurt and confused. I am lacking support
>from people closest to me (except for all you) and I am feeling like I
>have lost this battle. I am almost at the end of my rope. I am also
>feeling down because in 1 week it will be 2 years since my little baby
>boy died and I can't stop thinking about it. I am having a sad few days
>and I need some friends. Thanks for listening. Hope you all are having
>a pain free day!
>Hugs~
>Lori D.
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