ENDO Messages for August, 2005: Re: anal sex

Re: anal sex

From: Jessica (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed Aug 3 10:02:31 2005

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I also have problems with my endo and anal sex pain. When we first started doing it, It was unberable and I would cry. It would be over. I visited a sex shop about a yr ago and picked up a few things that might help. I got some beads and a lube specifically for anal sex. The beads vary in size so you can use them kind of as a warm up tool to ease into it and then your man can find out how far he can go in without hurting you. The anal lube is kind of like orajal(sp). Like novacaine for the ass. It really helps numb things up. I also usually end up taking pain meds before or after any kind of sex. When a lot of women have anal sex they let there man come in from the side or the back(like doggy style) I find it easier if the woman is on top because that way you can control how far it goes in and can go at the pace that works for you. Good luck. Hope something helps. Jessica

At Wed, 3 Aug 2005, Tia wrote: >
>At Tue, 2 Aug 2005, Tracey wrote:
>>
>>At Tue, 2 Aug 2005, steffi wrote:
>>>
>>>me and my boyfriend are wanting to have anal sex and verious other
>>>things in that regon but my endo keeps stoping me i am in stage 2 and
>>>have constant cysts, has anyone else found a way that anal sex works
>>>with your endo?
>>>
>>>--
>>>steffi
>>>
>>Oh no!! My man is lucky if he gets ANY sex!! sorry but with this
>>Endo,...My pain is off the wall during and after.(for days)
>> so,...sex is a treat in my household.
>> LOL
>>alot of my endo is towards the back of my uterus,colon,culdesac,etc...
>>so thats a sure NO for me!
>> I plan ahead and take my pain meds ,
>>Not that it helps much.
>> Good luck~
>> Wish ya luck!
>> Tracey
>
>Steffi,
>
>Unfortunately I agree with Stacey. There is not much of a remedy for
>that other than use a lot of astroglide and go very slow.
>Regular intercourse is also a big feat in my house. It is very hard and
>I also have the endo around the cul de sac along with adhesions. So it
>is very rare that I have a decent pain free day. That is the fight of
>the relationship constantly.
>I wish there were more options for women with endo, but there are not
>many.
>You just have to make concessions or not do it at all.
>Try the astroglide, use fingers first and have him go slow until u find
>a pace that is good for you.
>Sorry there is not more to do. Hope I helped a bit.
>
>--
>Tia
>

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