ENDO Messages for July, 2005: Re: I'm so tired of this I can't cry anymore--to Jamie

Re: I'm so tired of this I can't cry anymore--to Jamie

From: Erica (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Jul 11 11:38:57 2005

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Hi Jamie,

I am SO sorry to hear about the problems that you are having and I can completely empathize with you. I just got married in April and my husband and I have not had sex since February. He (as yours is) is very understanding but I feel just horrible about it. I did have this problem last year and my doctor performed a mild form of a LUNA procedure. It worked! I had no pain and actually got pregnant. Since then, I did lose the baby and the pain became unbearable. I just had surgery again Thursday where the doctor did another LUNA (a more permanent form) as well as other things and I am crossing my fingers that this will provide the same relief that it did before.

Try to remember and remind your husband that this isn't a choice YOU are making. it is the disease making the choice for you.

Good luck, you're in my thoughts and prayers. Erica

At Sat, 9 Jul 2005, Jamie wrote: >
>What I really would like is maybe some help. I was told I had endo when
>I was 18 (I'm 23 now) and I've been on different birth control pills,
>I've had surgery and I've tired more natural methods of dealing with the
>pain. I'm on Depo Provera now... and I finally don't have pain EVERY
>day. But I still have a problem... I just got married a year ago and I
>can't have sex with my husband. I just hurts me too much... When we
>were first together there was no problem. When the endo started to get
>worse I started getting more problems, more severe pain (I actually
>called into work because I couldn't get out of bed), more days of being
>in pain, nausea, I was either constipated or had diarrhea, my back
>hurt.. you get the idea. About a year or more of being with my now
>husband I started having pain during intercourse... nothing to bad it
>was just uncomfortable.... But I am at the point now that I could never
>have sex again and be just fine with it. But I love my husband and he
>nows its a problem for me he doesn't pressure me... but I just wish
>there was something that I could do so I could be with him and have it
>not hurt... it even hurts the whole next day after... I can't even try
>and take care of things myself with out hurting... I just don't know
>what to do... If anyone can tell me anything... I would really like to
>try it... My doctor hasn't helped... I hope somebody can.

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