ENDO Messages for May, 2005: Re: emotional stress

Re: emotional stress

From: Alta (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon May 9 13:07:12 2005

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All I can tell you is be creative. Yes it is hard and you feel guilty but like it was mentioned before you can be intimate in other ways. Flesh on flesh feels good. Body massage and..... If he were having problems with your endo he still wouldn't be with you. Be thankful for what a great guy he is. Don't dwell on the past (my ex husband cheated), he is not your ex. When you feel you can go all the way do it but when you can't be creative. Show him how much you appreciate him for being the great guy he is. Also, remember to keep communication open.

Take care.

At Sun, 8 May 2005, Toni wrote: >
>Hey everyone...I have bit of a personal problem and this may offend some
>of you but my problem is this...I feel stressed out in regards to
>initiating sex and so it rarely happens.I have had endometriosis for 17
>years now and it was a trigger in my last relationship failing. My
>fiancee is so very understanding of my problem but it's gotten to the
>point where he says he'd rather go without completely rather than have
>it once every 2 or 3 months. This makes me feel very sad as he's a man
>and men have their wants! While sex is not an important thing to my
>fiancee, I still feel as though I'm letting him down regardless of his
>soothing words and understanding nature. He's a great bloke and I'm
>really lucky to have him, but I still can't help feeling as though he's
>missing out on something he really loves doing! He always tells me not
>to blame myself as I didn't ask to have this condition but I do blame
>myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank-you...

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