ENDO Messages for April, 2005: Re: Getting surgeries..

Re: Getting surgeries..

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Apr 19 18:54:29 2005

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Man oh man do your moods swing like the wind. Did you even read your original message with the comments YOU made about your husband... and all the other posts you've made in which you tell us all how little support and connection you feel with him and how you feel like he just doesn't care and you were planning to leave him... etc.

I certainly did not intend any offense when I told you to focus on getting to a point where you feel better and all of this upcoming surgery and recovery is behind you before you make any decisions about changing your relationship. I said that because I know just how depressing and overwhelming all of this can be and how emotionally unsettled it can make a person feel. I said that because I honestly felt that you shouldn't even try to make any major and important decisions at this time about anything. I could only respond to what you have said many times over and I try to be supportive and understanding of the situation you're in and the emotional turmoil you feel and then you go and purposely make offensive comments to me.

I really hope that your surgery goes well, that your recovery is smooth and easy and that you and your husband work things out and your life is just perfectly peachy keen.

>I VERY much love my husband. We are just 2 totally different people.
>Anyone who has dealt with someone in the military realizes that you can
>get VERY angry at the situations you can be put in. That doesn't mean I
>don't love him, but I am never going to like him all the time. That is
>normal.
>I know you were not "trying" to be offensive, but EVERY time you type
>something, you should THINK more about how you say things.
>>
>>At Mon, 18 Apr 2005, Shannon wrote:
>>>
>>>I spoke to Dr. Cook today. He looked at the lap. pics I sent to him
>>>along with my medical history. He says I DO have endo. on my left
>>>ovary, large bowel, and cervix. He is going to do the leep procedure to
>>>remove my cancerous cells off of my cervix at the same time so I don't
>>>have to be awake. He said that I may have to get a rectocele surgically
>>>fixed(the muscle between the vagina and the rectum). Also I may have to
>>>get a bowel resection to remove the bad part of my large intestines.
>>>Though this will be a very long road, I truly believe that I will feel
>>>better after I heal. I find out later today when they will have
>>>scheduled me. The doctor is going to get tests run on me as far as the
>>>intestines/rectocele, before he removes anything. That is good! Lol.
>>>There are 2 more tests that the 3 gastro. doctors never ran on me. Dr.
>>>Cook really knows his stuff.
>>>My husband is mad b/c this is going to cost a lot of money and he
>>>doesn't think he can take the leave from the Navy. He wants me to wait
>>>until June. I can't do that with the cancerous cells on my cervix. Why
>>>does he always have to bring me down when it comes to me being fixed
>>>physically?

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