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Re: THE TRUTH BEHIND PAIN: A WOMAN WITH ENDO.

From: Yvonne (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Mar 31 19:21:34 2005


Jenni,

Im right there with you hun... Im 26yrs now, Ever since my first period at the age of 11 all I have come to know pain better then I would Like.. And being told that its a part of being a women!!!!! WHAT 11 yrs old and being in so much pain that I couldnt move thinking IM GOING TO DIE I KNOW IT! It wasn't until I was 23 when I was finally given a name for it. AND a couple year previous in a Lap surgery THEY MISSED IT.... a total of 3 surgeries and continuous BC LUPRON twice ( 6 months each session ) and still not much relief... Its a shame that people are so blind and so ill educated and ignorant about what we go through. I seriously think if it was a man going through this it would have world wide attention!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yvonne
Mon, 21 Mar 2005, anonymous wrote:
>
>everything you said is everything i have felt about my endo.  thank you
>for summing it up for me.  i thought you might be intrested in reading
>something i found on th einternet.  it is somet hing inspirational here
>is the site
>http://www.geocities.com/endovictims/inspirational.html
>it is a beautiful letter.
>
>At Sat, 19 Mar 2005, Jenni wrote:
>>
>>Many people will brag "You don't know the meaning of pain." Well, at
>>eighteen years of age I can safely say I do.  I have never been in a bad
>>car accident, I have never broken a bone, I’ve never had cancer, I’ve
>>never been shot, or addicted to drugs.  In fact I’ve never been through
>>most things people call traumatic.  I have, on the other hand, had two
>>X-rays, an ultra sound, an iodin enema, a CAT scan, anti-biotics shot
>>into my ass, anti-biotics that I ended up being allergic two, a surgery,
>>countless hours in the doctor’s office and hospital bills, doctor’s
>>bills through the roof, and three mis-diagnoses all for the wonderful
>>doctors to tell my I have a disease that I never even heard of.  But
>>wait it gets better.  This disease causes extreme pain, it is the
>>leading cause of infertility in women, no one knows what causes it,
>>there is no cure, and some doctors think it’s all in your head.  “Oh you
>>have Endometriosis.  Here have some Prozax.  The pain will go away like
>>that.” Okay that didn’t happen to me, but it happens to a lot of women.
>>Before magical Prozax came about it was “Have a hysterectomy that’ll
>>cure it.” What you know wrong there too.  Endo can come back even after
>>a hysto.  So the question is: what do they do if you have Endo? Well,
>>there’s birth control, a hysto, having a baby, Lupron (this wonderful
>>drug is designed so that you go through menopause for six to three
>>months, depending on what dose you get), progesterone cream, and a
>>various amount of other things.  Sounds kind of simple except you’re
>>forgetting that none of these cure Endo, they just treat it, subdue it
>>for awhile.  So where are our bleeding hearts, where are the hundreds,
>>and thousands of people willing to help our cause? Where are the people
>>who’ll go door to door to get money to find a cure, Hell will settle for
>>a cause? Where are all those people who take time out of their lives to
>>go on Endo walks, or Marches, or any kind of fund-raise? “Well, you’re
>>not dying, no one famous has it, I don’t know anyone who has it, and all
>>women have pain before and during their period.  So just quit
>>complaining, grin and bare it.” Those are wonderful answers, aren’t
>>they? I’m being sarcastic incase you couldn’t tell.  For all those who
>>say I should just grin and bare it let me say something.  You’ve never
>>been seventeen years old and in pain that not even the doctors can
>>explain.  You’ve never been in so much pain that all you can do is lie
>>in bed and cry.  You’ve never been told that there’s a slim-to-nil
>>chance that you’ll have the one thing you’ve been looking forward to
>>since you can remember.  You’ve never woken up screaming because a shot
>>of white hot pain just went straight through your abdomen.  You don’t
>>have to worry that if you ever actually have a kid that you could pass
>>this onto your daughter, or your grand-daughter.  If you have
>>experienced these things then you should know not to tell me to grin and
>>bare it.  For all those of you who have never experienced these things
>>then keep your mouth shut until either you or a close friend or family
>>member does then we can talk.  Until then leave me to my pain.

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Yvonne





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