Re: Bloating after intercourse...
From: Julie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Mar 31 13:57:15 2005
I had the same exact thing - well sometimes they told me they saw yeast
and others they didn't. (I went to the doctor about 10 times in the
matter of 8 months for this) I have the burning and pain during sex, I
had discharge (and sorry to have to explain like this, but it got so bad
it looked like toilet paper chunks)-yet they still said it wasn't yeast
half the time-and none of the medicine they gave me for a yeast
infection ever worked. I also had the tears you mentioned at the top,
around the opening, and sides- different places at different times but
they burnt during intercourse and urination- so they tested me for STD's
and I had none-so they did nothing. So anyway now I am down to just the
minimal discharge (Summer's Eve helps with this) which I think is caused
by the endo. I have read that some dr's believe that candida and endo
are related. I was also just checked again by my gyno who again said
that she saw no yeast. I thought and still do think that Birth Control
Pills make it worse-which is a known fact that it can cause yeast
infections. I quit taking the birth control pills last June and it has
gotten much better since. I haven't had the tears since then which were
the worst part-so if you are on birth control pills I would suggest
stopping those. Sorry to have to go into such detail-but I want to be
of as much help as I can.
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Julie
At Thu, 31 Mar 2005, anonymous wrote:
>
>I went onto the NVA site and was amazed at what I read. At my last dr's
>appt. I told the dr. I thought I had recurrent yeast infections, but
>no signs of yeast. Just burning after intercourse especially when I
>urinated. Also, I have started having tears at the upper part of my
>vagina. I thought it was from intercourse, but my husband and I haven't
>done anything all week so I know it's not that. It burns sooo bad!! I
>was kind of embarrased when I posted this question to the forum, but am
>so relieved that I am not the only person who is suffering from this. I
>wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemey, but it's nice to have
>someone to talk to who can relate.
>
>At Thu, 31 Mar 2005, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
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>>Hello All,
>>I also suffer from extreame pain and bloating after intercourse (I was
>>diagnosed with endo about 4 years ago, and have my thrid lap scheduled
>>in a month)...but the pain that goes with sex is just horrible, I talked
>>to my gyno/endo specialist about it, and he refered me to another
>>specialist, who then diagnosed me with Vulvar Vestibulitis (you can read
>>more about it @ http://www.nva.org)...so I am now progressing with treatments
>>for this as well as the endo. I have no idea if any of you other ladies
>>suffer from this, endo in itself can cause huge amounts of pain with
>>intercourse, but look into it, If it is V.V. they can cure it. Anywaz,
>>I really just wanted to give you ladies my support, I recenly lost a
>>boyfriend mainly due to the lack of sex. People tell me all the time
>>that if sex is that important to him than he wasnt worth it, but I'm
>>only 20 years old, obviously sex is a big part of any relationship at
>>this age. It's really hard for me to find anyone who understands this,
>>I feel like I was a bad girlfriend for not being able to give him
>>sex...and to be honest I have a healthy sex drive and it makes me very
>>sad not to be able to enjoy it. My hearts are with all you women who
>>are suffering. I am only a first year nursing student, but I have
>>access to all kinds of medical information, so if anyone ever has any
>>questions I would be happy to help you seek out the anwswers either on
>>the board or through email, michconnolly@hotmail.com.
>>
>>Thanks for listening to me vent, Mich
>>
>>At Wed, 30 Mar 2005, Julie wrote:
>>>
>>>>At Tue, 29 Mar 2005, anonymous wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>Hello ladies. I am wondering if anyone else has bloating after
>>>>>intercourse. I know this may sound stupid...but it happens 99% of the
>>>>>time to me. My abdomen becomes tender also. Intercourse is painful but
>>>>>it mainly depends on which position we use. I have also noticed that
>>>>>after I have an orgasm (manually or orally) that penetration is almost
>>>>>impossible due to pain. Is this normal & does anyone else suffer from
>>>>>this?? Thanks!!
>>>>
>>>I was actually wondering the same thing, but too embarassed to ask my
>>>doctor if it was normal. I think I understand what you are saying, but
>>>in my case after I orgasm it hurts to continue having intercourse. I
>>>also have to avoid certain positions because of the increased pain in
>>>some. I also have no sex drive at all which I think is due to the pain.
>>>Since my lap. 2 weeks ago I am starting to get it back a little....I
>>>wonder if that is normal after a lap? Anyway, I hope to have been of
>>>some help.
>>>
>>>--
>>>Julie juliechristie_03@yahoo.com
>>>
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Julie juliechristie_03@yahoo.com