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Re: Exercising after lap
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Mar 29 22:11:57 2005
Dawn,
Are you serious? I have read Marsha's response over a number of times
and I can not possibly see what you see.
I only hope that you took the advice and went back to your Dr.
At Tue, 29 Mar 2005, Susie wrote:
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>That is it, I am off of this board. This is ridiculous. Marsha was
>just saying what she experienced. I personally found her comment very
>constructive because I was wondering the same thing. It is a week after
>my surgery and I feel normal again and I refuse to feel bad about
>feeling good. Marsha was expressing CONCERN for you. Notice in her
>post... "I know everyone is different" "Good luck"... This message did
>not seem hostile in the slightest. I can't believe people actually
>agree that this message is insensitive! I don't know how anyone could
>POSSIBLY take offense to her post. I don't care if you take offense to
>this one at all because I could probably tell you to have the lovliest
>day in the world and you would find it insensitive to your pain. Look,
>we are all in pain, and I don't think that people who are in pain have
>the ability to be insensitive to other's pain unless they are completely
>void of heart. Marsha is obviously not void of heart. I really hope
>you are able to find some relief, but finding offense in every comment
>is not helping yourself or anyone else.
>
>On the other hand, the response to Stacy's post was ACTUALLY insensitive
>and I couldn't believe some of the terrible comments. Now THAT is
>insensitivity!! BTW: definition of insensitive in the Merriam Webster
>dictionary in*sen*si*tive a: not responsible or susceptible (to the
>demands of the public) b: lacking feeling or tact (so as to LAUGH AT
>SOMEONE IN PAIN!!!!!)
>Have a great life everyone, this board is just awful...
>
>Such a shame...
>
>- Susie
>
>At Sun, 27 Feb 2005, dj wrote:
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>>At Tue, 15 Feb 2005, Marsha wrote:
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>>>At Mon, 14 Feb 2005, dj wrote:
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>>>>Hi - had a lap on dec. 10 and want to get back to an exercise routine
>>>>but find my belly hurts if I do anything...anyone else gone through
>>>>this? Dawn
>>>
>>>Hi Dawn,
>>>This seems like a long time to still have pain. Do you mean your
>>>"insides" hurt or your abdominal muscles? I would certainly get to your
>>>Dr. if it is internal. I had a lap on Dec 1 and it was only about 3
>>>days later that I started back (progressively)I understand that everyone
>>>is different but 2 months seems on the abnormal side.
>>>Good luck,
>>>Marsha
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>>Marsha,
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>>I kept thinking about your response and shared it with some friends and
>>we all agree that it isn't very constructive for you to tell someone who
>>is having pain to hear that you went back to working out after only 3
>>days. Why would that be beneficial for me to hear?
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