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Re: Exercising after lap

From: Susie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Mar 29 08:03:31 2005


That is it, I am off of this board. This is ridiculous. Marsha was just saying what she experienced. I personally found her comment very constructive because I was wondering the same thing. It is a week after my surgery and I feel normal again and I refuse to feel bad about feeling good. Marsha was expressing CONCERN for you. Notice in her post... "I know everyone is different" "Good luck"... This message did not seem hostile in the slightest. I can't believe people actually agree that this message is insensitive! I don't know how anyone could POSSIBLY take offense to her post. I don't care if you take offense to this one at all because I could probably tell you to have the lovliest day in the world and you would find it insensitive to your pain. Look, we are all in pain, and I don't think that people who are in pain have the ability to be insensitive to other's pain unless they are completely void of heart. Marsha is obviously not void of heart. I really hope you are able to find some relief, but finding offense in every comment is not helping yourself or anyone else.

On the other hand, the response to Stacy's post was ACTUALLY insensitive and I couldn't believe some of the terrible comments. Now THAT is insensitivity!! BTW: definition of insensitive in the Merriam Webster dictionary in*sen*si*tive a: not responsible or susceptible (to the demands of the public) b: lacking feeling or tact (so as to LAUGH AT SOMEONE IN PAIN!!!!!) Have a great life everyone, this board is just awful...

Such a shame...

- Susie

At Sun, 27 Feb 2005, dj wrote: >
>At Tue, 15 Feb 2005, Marsha wrote:
>>
>>At Mon, 14 Feb 2005, dj wrote:
>>>
>>>Hi - had a lap on dec. 10 and want to get back to an exercise routine
>>>but find my belly hurts if I do anything...anyone else gone through
>>>this? Dawn
>>
>>Hi Dawn,
>>This seems like a long time to still have pain. Do you mean your
>>"insides" hurt or your abdominal muscles? I would certainly get to your
>>Dr. if it is internal. I had a lap on Dec 1 and it was only about 3
>>days later that I started back (progressively)I understand that everyone
>>is different but 2 months seems on the abnormal side.
>>Good luck,
>>Marsha
>
>Marsha,
>
>I kept thinking about your response and shared it with some friends and
>we all agree that it isn't very constructive for you to tell someone who
>is having pain to hear that you went back to working out after only 3
>days. Why would that be beneficial for me to hear?






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