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Re: Stacy has a right to post here.
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Mar 26 17:14:09 2005
There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword,
But the tongue of the wise promotes health.
Proverbs 12:18
At Sat, 26 Mar 2005, anonymous wrote:
Okay then, go back and read her original post about how this is her
>third "accidental" pregnancy, about how she and her boyfriend don't get
>along, aren't working, have no money, she's addicted to pain killers and
>is bi-polar - the medication to treat bi-polar has extremely serious and
>life-threatening side effects to a fetus... now, that you've read that,
>what exactly are you going to say to her that will be of any use to her?
>
>That's what I thought... ooo stacy, we hope everything turns out all
>right, hugs, we're praying for you, etc. etc. Did that help? Did that
>solve anything for her? No, she needs social service workers to help
>her. She needs people who can sit in the same room with her, point out
>the obvious and steer her in the right direction and there is not one
>single person on this bloody forum who can do that so shut up and stop
>lecturing me on what I should or should not reply.
>
>Either offer Stacy advice you have or just leave it alone. It is you
>people who insist upon replying to MY posts that are creating and
>perpetuating a problem here. I am not the one asking for advice from
>you, Stacy is so reply to her or don't reply at all.
>
>Wondering why people will waste time trying to 'correct' me for my words
>to Stacy yet offer no original thoughts of their own to her.... hmmmmm
>
>At Sat, 26 Mar 2005, Rachel wrote:
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>>Who says Stacy is looking for us to solve all of her problems? Maybe
>>she's only looking for objective advice that she cannot get at home, or
>>from her boyfriend, or from a doctor. We all know how doctors can be.
>>The main point of this is, none of us lives each others lives. It's
>>none of anyone's business what this girl does, what I do, or what you
>>do. This forum is about our reproductive health, and abortion just
>>happens to be a legal form of healthcare, however controversial it may
>>be. Stacy has endometriosis, and other health problems...she has the
>>right to post here like everyone else. Not one of us is free from
>>health problems, and not one of us has made perfectly flawless choices
>>our whole lives. Please, if you would like to help her, then do. If
>>you are are angry about her choices, then ignore the posts.
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