ENDO Messages for January, 2005: Re: back again

Re: back again

From: D.N. (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Jan 2 08:24:57 2005

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Hi Stacy,

This is my suggestion. Try and find a counselor in your area that takes payment on sliding scale based on your income. They maybe at a family clinic or if you have a teaching hospital in your area, try there too. You need someone to talk to. Endo is a difficult thing to deal with all by itself. If you feel like things are spinning out of control and your boyfriend is pressuring you for things you can't comfortably deal with, you need some help to get yourself back to a better place. Also, they may be able to help you with weaning off of the pain medication, along with your doctor's help.

I am very concerned that your boyfriend still wants to have sex even though you are crying and in pain. All he is thinking about are his needs and that is so wrong. He is not caring for you. You deserve better than that. Please find someone that can help you so you feel stronger and are better able to deal with things.

Best wishes, D.N.

At Sat, 1 Jan 2005, stacy wrote: >
>I thought this pain was over, after 2 laporoscopy's in less than a year.
>During the last one they took my appendix out and 2 weeks later I was
>rushed to the ER come to find out I needed a laparotomy because there
>was a staple left inside of me that got attached to my intestines. I
>felt great for those 2 weeks prior to that. Now it hurts all day and I
>need pain meds to get through the day. I have no health insurance so
>the lupron shot is deffinitly not an option right now, although it
>worked the best. I don't know what to do. If the pain gets worse looks
>like I'll be spending the rest of my weekend in the hospital. I just
>want to cry I feel so alone. My boyfriend pressures me to have sex even
>when it hurts and I end up crying after cause it hurts so bad. When I
>don't give it to him he yells and ruins my things. I know I should
>leave him but thats a different story for another day.
>I don't know what to do, I'm sick of taking the meds to relieve the pain
>but I have no choice now I'm addicted to them since I've been on them
>for a year. But there's nothing else I can do.
>I just need someone to talk to I'm lost and my life is spinning out of
>control.
>
>- stacy

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