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Re: So very sad.From: Sonia (anonymous@obgyn.net)Sun Dec 26 22:32:07 2004
At Sun, 26 Dec 2004, April wrote: > >Hello everyone, > >Just wanted to let everyone know how infertility has affected me to the >point of losing hope on everything in life. My ex boyfriend and I were >together for 5 years before he broke up with me. The last 2 1/2 years >together we tried to get pregnant to no avail. It was discovered that I >had a fibroid which might be the cause and I had surgery. Still no >pregnancy. Well my boyfriend left me and now he is dating different >women in hopes of getting one of them pregnant. I just found out >recently one of them might be pregnant and of course you can imagine how >I feel. So just writing about this is kind of like therapy for me since >I can't talk about it to anyone in my family because I feel like >something is really wrong with me. Does anyone know if two abortions >can cause infertility and any suggestions for me? >Thanks for any advice. > >evemich11@att.net >> >>Hi April;
>>I can tell you I lived what you are living now, to make my story a short one my ex -boyfriend, Nelson was almost 9 1/2 years older than me. After 2 weeks since we were going out I told him that I have endometriosis and I might never going to be pregnant, 4 months later he wanted to live together, my answer was not until we get married and it was ok with him, so on December he wanted to get married not on the next June or maybe July the next one in 1 and ½ year later and I said yes!!! From the first moment, I was very happy but, on the first week of February I jump over a fence and fell down, 2 days later I felt a sharp pain on the lower abdomen and something went down between my legs, something like a little red balloon and when I call the ob-gyn and told him what happen he said the I just had a natural abortion, I did not know that I was pregnant because all this un-regular menstrual periods, I told my boyfriend 2 weeks after, when I felt more strong to talk about it and besides that I was crying and crying, but we stay together until August when he left me, because he stop feeling the same way about me. Since then has been passed 2 years and 5 months and on all this time he still be something in my life on my good and the bad memories, I lost my baby, lost him, whom I loved with all my heart, still quiet with my family about the lost of the baby, I was a disaster walking around, now I am better, I have not seen him in 1 year but he is living with someone who is what I am not, who can give him what I can, plus 2 children’s more from her previous marriage. What I did?? I went to a psychology then a psychiatry, I still going to them, for the depression, I read a lot, write a lot more, went to the movies, to the beach, say hello to my friends, I do everything I can do keep me away from my memories about the baby, Nelson and to maintain the silence from my family about the baby and for the Endo everything I can get from this site, something’s work for me, some did not, but doing something is better than doing nothing, but I always the firs thing I do is talk to my doctor before begin any kind of treatment and live one day at the time. Just remember "This will pass too" Vanessa
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