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Re: it's hard being a stay at home mom with this ...endo..to TINA
From: montele (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu Nov 18 18:53:32 2004
Tina,
Thats what we are all here for so that we can share stories and give
eachother support.....and if you ever need to talk you can write me at
lilmontele04@yahoo.com.....like I said we need to stick together......we
are the ENDOGIRLS......has a nice ring to it.....we can start a
band...heheheheheheh......well everyone take care
At Thu, 18 Nov 2004, Tina wrote:
>
>Hi there,
>
>I just wanted to reply to you two ladies to say I can't believe the
>similarities of our situations. While I am blessed to have a 6 and 2
>year old, it is so hard to get through the day til my husband gets home
>to help and usually he has to come home, make dinner, pack lunches etc.
>No sex here either maybe twice since the endo has flared up again. I am
>on and off depressed and then I feel bad about being depressed. I just
>want this to end. I know you feel the same and while I wouldn't wish
>this on anyone else I am so glad there are others here to talk to. I
>think I would lose it completley if it wasn't for the internet and this
>support group.
>
>Best wishes for tomorrow!
>Tina : )
>
>At Thu, 18 Nov 2004, Tricia wrote:
>>
>>My hubby says the same thing but even when he says no I start with the
>>forplay any way and losts of it tell he gives in. I just had to go
>>almost a year with out not being abal to make love with my hubby it was
>>very hard b/c even after 8 years together thats the one thing we love to
>>do together.:) Like I said hang in there.There losts of ways to play
>>with our hubby with out it herting you.You both just have to keep an
>>opened mind.:)
>>Tricia
>>
>>At Thu, 18 Nov 2004, montele wrote:
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>>>Tricia
>>>Thanks for the support....My boys are almost the same age as
>>>yours.....mine are 4 and 1 1/2.....he will be 2 in Jan.....my hubby is
>>>very understabding and helps out a lot but our relationship is down
>>>right now.....(the no sex)....it hurts way to bad....and I tell him all
>>>the time that I will try it ...but he is like no....I don't want to hurt
>>>you....and that makes me feel so bad the he dosn't want to touch me in
>>>fear that he will hurt me.....that really sucks...
>>>lov ya
>>>montele
>>>
>>>At Thu, 18 Nov 2004, Tricia wrote:
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>>>>Ya I am with you on this one. I have two boys 5 and 2 I can not keep up
>>>>with them. My hubby has to come home every day and clean and do dinner.
>>>>Its hard when all you would like to do is go to sleep and you have to be
>>>>with the kids. Hang in there. Let me know if you need to vent about
>>>>it.
>>>>Tricia
>>>>
>>>>At Thu, 18 Nov 2004, montele wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>I know i'm not alone with this feeling of allways feeling yucky......I'm
>>>>>always tierd and always in some typ of pain......I can't take anything
>>>>>for it because I will fall asleep.....if I take the mild suff it dosn't
>>>>>even work......what am I going to do....I have to take care of
>>>>>them...but who is going to take care of me....(thats how I feel
>>>>>sometimes)....I think I might be getting a little depressed....but i'm
>>>>>not sure.....I just hope that things will get better...I just wish I
>>>>>could have one day with no pain and feel fresh as a daisy...(yeah right)
>>>>>Lov ya
>>>>>Montele
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