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Re: Wah, wah, wah, sniffle...
From: Patti (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Oct 30 18:32:58 2004
Some of us are suffering from both, and I was protecting myself from the
herpes, but ended up with it because the man I loved was not faithful.
so despite my best efforts I suffer anyway. I accepted him after I
found out he gave it to me, even forgave him, but he left when my Endo
got to be too much. I was in too much pain to have sex and too tired to
do a lot, and affects of the Lupron in some ways I don't blame him for
leaving. If I could go and leave Endo behind I would. From someone who
has both, if I could choose. I would choose the Herpes. It's a minor
inconvience compaired to the Endo which controls my life.
I have decided that I won't let this run my life, so I try to stay
strong and not let anyone know, but for the most part I feel alone.
There are a lot more people who suffer from Herpes and there are a lot
more support groups for both men and woman for Herpes. Try to explain
Endo to a man. Once they hear that Sex is painful they run, thinking
you won't like sex. With someone empathetic to my condition it would be
fine, but I have yet to meet him.
I challenge you to Educate yourself about this condition, and do not
judge, as you have not walked in my shoes. Life is no picnic for any of
us, but it is what you make it. I prefer to be a survivor of both
Herpes and Endo.
At Sun, 24 Oct 2004, Pam wrote:
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>At Sun, 24 Oct 2004, Nicole wrote:
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>>first off, ms herpes comments were very uncalled for...
>>
>>but then again...so are the responses....not everyone WITH herpes asked
>>for it, or was careless per se.....don't cast general stones....some of
>>us may be suffering from both : )
>>
>>At Fri, 22 Oct 2004, Pam wrote:
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>>>At Wed, 20 Oct 2004, Rosa wrote:
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>>>>Well excuse me!
>>>>
>>>>When you have chronic pain, severe bleeding, are unable to go to work
>>>>and/or have children, have to spend hundreds of dollars on medication,
>>>>constantly visiting drs (some of whom don't even diagnose you until
>>>>years have passed), and the disease has ruined relationships with
>>>>significant others and loved ones, then you can post here.
>>>>
>>>>I don't wish endo on anyone, but don't come here and call us a bunch of
>>>>crybabies before you learn anything about us.
>>>>
>>>>At least I didn't end up with endo because I was careless - I didn't
>>>>have a way to protect myself.
>>>>
>>>>Please don't post here again.
>>>>
>>>>At Wed, 20 Oct 2004, Ms. wrote:
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>>>>>You are all just a bunch of big crybabies. Get a grip on reality. Suck
>>>>>it up, you could be living in a country that doesn't even provide
>>>>>healthcare. At least you don't have a case of festering herpes like me.
>>>>>Wanna kiss?
>>>
>>>--
>>>hey herps,
>>> What the hell are talking about, until you walk in my shoes shut the f up.
>>>I'm glad you have herps and see why you got it, who the hell are you? Maybe you
>>>should take care of your herps and then maybe we'll let you in to our forum.
>>>It's obvious you have a problems with this site so you should stay off of it.
>>>You don't have a clue what any of us feel, are from another country or some
>>>thing? Do us all a favor stay off this site it's not ment for people like you.
>>>Pam
>>>
>--
>The woman who posted your stupid comment about us being babys is unessary
>comments and should bekept to your self. This site is for helping waman that
>needs support so please do not go on this web site because we do not want you
>here. We care about each other on this site so please stay away. I lashed out
>at you because what you said was truly wrong we are not cry babies you are.
>Do you have a boy friend baby you should vent to him and not us. Stay away
>we do not want you on here. Thank you
>
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Patti
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