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Re: Endo and Sex Drive....RIP
From: Amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Aug 13 08:07:33 2004
I think you just have to be able to laugh at yourself or insanity will
set in! I am actually able to find some humor in it too. I haven't had
that "glow" in a long time!
At Thu, 12 Aug 2004, RISA'S wrote:
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>SORRY FOR LAUGHING BUT WHAT SEX DRIVE????????
>
>MY POOR HUSBAND! BEFORE I MET HIM MY ENDO WAS UNDER CONTROL BECAUSE I
>WAS YOUNG ENOUGH TO BE ON THE PILL. THAN I GOT OLDER, DR SAID TO STOP
>DUE TO RISKS OF BLOOD CLOTS AND BOOM....I COULD CARE LESS ABOUT SEX! I
>HAVE TO TALK MYSELF INTO IT...LIKE IT'S A PROJECT AT WORK THAT HAS TO
>GET DONE BECAUSE IT'S REQUIRED! I WANT O REWIND 7 YEARS AND HAVE
>PASSIONATE, RAW, AMAZING SEX! YOU ALL KNOW...THE KIND THAT GIVES YOU
>THAT FRESHLY F---D GLOW!
>
>At Thu, 12 Aug 2004, Amy wrote:
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>>It is NOT you! I feel like I wrote your message myself. I used to be a
>>very sexual person and the hubby and I had an active sex life. Then the
>>endo got way out of control and now I could really care less about sex.
>>Even when I don't hurt and I think maybe tonight is the night, just
>>thinking that it MIGHT hurt during or after sex is enough to turn me
>>off. I think he gets sick of hearing me say "be easy, be careful".
>>
>>I love my hubby more than life itself and he is a wonderful friend and
>>lover, but I too would probably rather walk on hot coals than have sex!
>>He is very patient and understanding and never complains, but that look
>>of disappointment and frustration is enough to make me nuts! It is like
>>a lose-lose situation: If I give in and have sex, I will probably hurt
>>and bleed, sometimes for a couple days after, but if I say no, I have to
>>live with the guilt I put on myself for not feeling like a good wife.
>>Damned disease! It's bad enough to live in physical pain, but I swear
>>the mental games it plays on me is much worse. At least they make pills
>>for pain. They can't make a pill that makes me feel not guilty!
>>
>>If you want to chat or vent more, email me at work: ameyer@dbllaw.com. I
>>completely understand and you are not alone!
>>
>>Hugs!
>>Amy
>>
>>At Wed, 11 Aug 2004, Carole wrote:
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>>>Is it me? The very thought of my husband coming towards me with that
>>>look of yearning in his eyes turns my stomache. I adore my husband
>>>truly I do, but I'd rather stand barefoot on hot coals than let him
>>>touch me. My husband doesn't complain about my lack of interest but I
>>>know it has to be getting on his nerves he is at times short tempered
>>>with me. He knows I'm in pain at times and when I'm not in pain I'm
>>>sleeping off a pain pill and he's not interest in engaging with a dead
>>>to the world wife.
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