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Re: Helpless
From: ann (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Jul 30 19:26:07 2004
At Fri, 30 Jul 2004, CRB wrote:
>Linda,
The best thing you can do for yourself is talk with a 3rd party such as
a psychiatrist or minister. From there you can always go on to marriage
counseling. I have been seeing a psychiatrist for two years now and
it's a great place to vent, monitor medications and voice anything else
you have on your mind.
Keep in mind you are not alone!
Ann
>Hi Linda,
>I am sorry for all the problems and the pain. Maybe you could look into
>finding a job to work at home or work though the internet at home. This
>might help. I think you and your husband need to talk about the
>problem. Is he mad that you don't work, is money a problem, or is he
>mad that you are sick and can't help? Maybe he just can't tell you how
>he feels. So he just picks a fight, because that is easier. The Med
>you take are they for depression or for the endo. There are vitamin you
>can take for depression. Ask your dr if he knows any. But hang in
>there. We are all here to support you.
>Consuelo
>At Thu, 29 Jul 2004, Linda wrote:
>>
>>I really think i have to vent more than anything. My Husband does not
>>understand what its like to have endo He make me feel like its my fault
>>I have this Diseases By the way I have endo,Adenomyosis, Fibroid tumors.
>>He wants me to find a job now after not working since 1996, Its not like
>>I havent tried but who wants to hire someone who is unreliable. He
>>wants to retire and I can't blame him hes worked in the factory for 31
>>years. I'm at my wits end right now I'm writing this while in pain and
>>he has not talked to me in days. Because of the Diseases and the stress
>>I also was diagnosed with sever depression which he says I need to quit
>>taking my medication because of the price. Thanks for leting
>>me vent
>>
>>--
>>Linda
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