Re: Painful Intercourse
From: Mysti (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon May 31 02:10:08 2004
Hi Ladies..
I too have the same problem.. I have the most problem at the entrance
and deep penetration..
Its very emotional, frustrating, unbearably painful feeling as if I’m
being cut alive..
I can live without sex but I can’t deprive my husband of it..
I tried lots of things/meds, different methods and position.. NOTHING
WORKS.. its just too painful.. as if I’m being cut inside out while
salt is poured on it.. sometime peeing for me is just as bad -
painful/stinging.. so you can imagine how bad it is having something in
there and moving..
What I use is.. Xylocaine jelly.. it doesn’t take all the pain away
but it numbs for a bit.. the stinging ease a little and I don’t feel as
if I’m being tear/cut alive..
Good Luck to you all..
~mysti
At Sun, 30 May 2004, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>
>Hi Liz
>
>I have same problem, i get very upset and frustrated every time i try to
>have intercourse with my boyfriend and have to stop becase it hurts so
>much i cant stand it. Is something working for you? I hope so. I been
>reading the chats and also agree that depression have a lot to do with
>the hormones we are taking, in my case Danazol. I feel so good i found
>this forum. Is difficult to get other people to understand you.
>
>Thanks!
>Van
>
>At Wed, 26 May 2004, Liz wrote:
>>
>>Hi gals!
>>
>>I have a BIG problem, and I need some help. I was diagnosed with endo
>>in December, after sixteen years of problems with my cycle. It was not
>>a big surprise, as my mom has endo and we're pretty sure my grandmother
>>had it. After years of horrific cramps during my period and a
>>completely irregular cycle, I finally decided to have the laparoscopy
>>because it was getting painful to be intimate with my husband (we've
>>been married for a year and a half). Well, after the lap, things have
>>only gotten worse for me. My period is horrible, and it is actually
>>impossible to be intimate. I wind up in tears every time we try, which
>>is not often. I have no idea what to do. My Gyn is a complete moron,
>>and when I asked her she said "Well, just don't try". Needless to say,
>>I'm changing doctors. But what do I do in the meantime? Does anyone
>>have any advice???
>>
>>Thanks!
>>Liz
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