Re: ally sad. Didn't know where else to go.
From: Julie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Apr 30 08:19:48 2004
Zoe,
I am so, so sorry. It's OK to grieve for your miscarrage and for having
endo and be sad, mad, throw things, cry, what ever you need to do. This
is a terrible disease that it is very difficult for people who do not
have to understand even if they are supportive family. It is hard to
make poeple understand that a hug can make you feel better fro a moment.
You are a strong person and talking in support groups like this one can
help because people know what you are going through and can understand.
It is wrong of your doctor not to tell you to use contraception on
ZOladex but alsa my first doctor did not tell me either, luckily for me
I was looking up the side effects on the internet and found out
beforehand.
Don;t worry most of our posts are depressing, it is a depressing
disease, but if we share the load and all that.
Thinking of you,
--
Julie - Australia
At Thu, 29 Apr 2004, bella wrote:
>
>At Mon, 20 May 2002, Ana wrote:
>>
>>Zoe,
>>I am so sorry hun. My mom went through 7 miscarriages and I know that w s extremely difficult for her. I don't know what to tell you. I think elling you everything will be all right would not be right, cuz I am sur if I said that you would wanna smack me cuz everything is not alright. I wish I was there to give you hugs, but in the mean time I am going to pray for you. Let us know how you are feeling and what-not. If you nee someone to listen I am practically online all the time. E-mail me at T tania41564@msn.com.
>>~ANA
>>
>>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>From: anonymous@obgyn.net
>>Sent: Monday, May 20, 2002 11:12 AM
>>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
>>Subject: Really sad. Didn't know where else to go.
>>
>>Been told today that I've just had another miscarriage.
>>
>>I was told that I couldn't get pregnant naturally as I wasn't ovulating
>>and I was in a false menopause cos of the Zoladex injections I was
>>having. After 5 months of pain free bliss, I started having really bad
>>pains on Saturday and have been bleeding for 3 days now. Went to the
>>doctor today and after examining me he told me I was having a
>>miscarriage. Apparantly me and my husband should have been using some
>>sort of contraception even though I was on the Zoladex.
>>
>>I just don't know what to think anymore. I feel as though someones
>>punched me in the stomach and don't know how much more I can take.
>>
>>My family and friends are all angry at the doctors for not telling me
>>that this could happen. I just want someone to give me a hug and tell
>>me that everything will be alright, but everyone seems to think that
>>because I didn't know I was pregnant that I shouldn't be too upset. They
>>keep telling me that I'll have a baby some day. I just want to know why
>>me! This is the third baby I've lost now and I can't seem to stop
>>crying.
>>
>>I'm sorry this post is so depressing, but I really needed someone to
>>talk to who might understand how much I'm hurting.
>>
>>Thanks for listening.
>>
>>Zoe.
>
>--
>can anyone tell me more about adeomyosis............just diagonosed today and havent a clue
>
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